Seriously, guys do some weird things when they like a girl. Many times, it's appreciated, but sometimes it's just too creepy.
I've even had a guy sing to me...
I was in choir with this other guy. That guy was REALLY talented in playing the piano and singing - I mean, really, really great at it. I went over to the piano and I was listening to him play the piano and sing. All the sudden, he starts smiling and staring and singing towards me.
ehhh...
There was also the entire choir (of course, talking amongst themselves; they could hear the piano playing though) and another girl was recording him on her phone. So it wasn't because I was the only one listening to him.
Another time, I went on a trip with my friend and her siblings. One of her siblings brought his friend along. So, during this trip, I would have to brush my teeth in the same bathroom (all the girls slept in one room on the bed and the guys on the floor, the couch, etc.) and I'm still half unconscious, but I notice someone is
staring at me through the mirror as I brush my teeth. At that time, I was too tired to give any reaction and proceeded with my own teeth-brushing.
Furthermore, there was a time when I just would have a guy stare at me from across the room...I know that guys do that to show "interest", but isn't that a bit rude? Or maybe they're staring at a stain on my shirt? A booger on my nose?
When I like a guy, I make sure I don't bother him, and definitely avoid the across-the-room-staring, because, first of all, its not a staring contest, and second of all, I would be creeped out, and third of all, what's
the point of staring? How is that going to make you attractive for the other person? Wouldn't you rather talk to that person?
How do you act to the person you like? How do guys/girls act towards you to show interest?
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because he wants to get in your pants.
or maybe there's something on your face.
or so you're ugly he couldn't stop staring.
or he just really likes you. DUHHH.
When I like a person, I pretty much act like I don't. I act as I would normally around them, as if my feelings were neutral. I'm way too nervous around guys I like to do anything else.
My boyfriend made small moves (kiss on the forehead, telling me how much he enjoyed spending time with me, etc) before our relationship, and I eventually sealed the deal with a kiss ;)
I know!
Last week, the second I stepped onto college campus was like Stare-City.
It made me uncomfortable.
Usually, when you're caught staring, you turn away, or smile. or SOMETHING.
not just keep staring.
its even worse when they stare and then wink
i would like to know too.......
how do you know a guy likes you?
is it just staring or something more?
Eye contact is okay.
Creepy staring is not.
It could also be that some of these people have ADHD, I have that, and I space out often, sometimes it looks like I am staring at someone/something.
i actually really enjoy staring at people and making them feel uncomfortable. you could say it was a hobby, although this is not out of interest just personal amusement :P
staring is rude and creepy.
ugh. i dont understand people. just because someone stares dosent mean there interested..it probably means your a piece of meat to them. heheh idk. i dont wanna sound like im bashing males. so ill stop.
but ya i guess it could mean interest..or those other tings u said
I agree with you. It just make me feel uncomfortable when people stare at me.
There is this guy in my class who loves to stare at my legs. Not even when I am wearing skirts and over knee socks, but also when I am wearing jeans...
It's just creepy.
It's because of your prominent monobrow. Those things are really distracting.
I think staring is ok..... just depends on people's comfort level. Most of the time, they are probably not even interested in you too. If they stare too often and don't talk to you then we have a problem. You should wave hi to them to see if they are looking at you in the first place. hahahaha
To me, some guys show very little signs that they are interested and think that they are giving it off too much. hahah Some are too honest about it which is good but most of the time those aren't the ones I find interesting. Nothing that they've done seem creepy to me yet. It's complicated... so I try to be friends with them first.
@aznsam999@xanga - I've actually had that happen to me.... it was the choir guy and he was all smiling and winked at me from across the room.... O__o;;
my physics teacher made a good point today:
"there is a fine line between flirting and being annoying. girls see it, guys don't."
sooo true.
when i like a guy, he'll know.
i do stupid stuff, give him something so he can't forget me, talk to him and get to know what goes on behind that pretty (or at LEAST cute) face. Don't droll over the guy, but let him know you're interested.
acting like you don't like someone is pointless.
if you ignore them, then how the hell are they going to get to know you?
being shy gets you nowhere. shyness killed my first three years of high school. NOT worth it.
haha that's funny that you bring that up. i always stare at that kutie across the room & he stares back at me. we talked after a funny situation about our essays. we're getting closer so i'm getting excited!
but when someone stares at me..i usually don't know what to do but stare back then ignore it. it would be creppy if someone was staring at me & i didn't know it. STALKER! xP
blatant gawking is unnerving and oftentimes creepy, yes. try to take it as a compliment and ignore as much as possible?
i must admit i'm guilty of staring at all types..i'm just an observer, though, not necessarily an admirer! ;P
I am so bad at flirting or letting a guy know I'm interested.
I have the same problem, some guy that works at the bar I go to stares at me alot, have always wondered why. If maybe he was interested or what it was.
Um, giving eye contact to show interest is okay like....
At first if we both made eye contact and connect mutually then he comes over to talk than that's totally cool. But creepy staring--- uh.. DEFIANTELY A NO. That's so uncomfortable
When I was in school I had a couple of guys in my classes who would just.. stare at me.. and then whenever I'd look at them they'd look away. A few times one of them slipped up and just kept staring at me though. Very awkward moments.
AHAHAHA, this reminds me of something my friend just told me yesterday.
She was entering our dorm building and was taking off her shoes, when she noticed behind her that a guy was watching through the glass window, trying to tell her to come outside. My friend just continued taking off her shoes and went to her room. She says he had probably followed her all the way home...creepy.
Needless to say, that is NOT an appropriate way of showing interest in a person.
Even though you could look at it as a compliment, it is rather unfortunate that you have to be at such a discomfort level because they, like most guys, don't know about subtlety.
Looking at a girl is fine because, let's face it, if we see an attractive female she's going to catch our attention. If she makes eye contact and she's responding well then great. But downright staring just really crosses the line towards weird, even if the girl was the least bit interested.
I'm real bad with eye contact with strangers but I've been working on it. But I tend to just glance once if something peaks my interest. I make a conscious effort not to stare.
If I actually like a guy i'm too nervous to even look at him most of the time. Example: Guy I like was helping my cousin and I with a party we were having. I had never really talked to him before that(both of us are very shy), we have a mutaul friend though. We(8people) all took a break from decorating and went to get food. We ended up next to each other and during the hour or so we were there I barely ever looked to my right side. Kinda pathetic I know. lol I have caught him staring a few times though.
A guy at a local McDonalds stares at me everytime I come in. I'll be talking to people who are working there since I know most of them and he'll just be back in the grill area working while staring at me constantly. Never says anything; just stares. It'll get so awkward and uncomfortable for me since I know he knows I know hes staring at me(follow that?) that I'll smile and do the head nod thing and he'll flash a quick half smile, then keep staring until i leave. CREEPY
if a man is talking to you and flirting with you sexually then he MIGHT be intrested if he is an older man BUT ! if he is a youngster and hes flirting more then likely it will be casual flirting and im pretty sure hes intrested. just because a man flirts with you ladies especially if hes good looking that doesnt mean he wants to lay you. what it means is that hes probably feeling you out to see if he thinks you meet his standards . now if a man flirts with you all the time and never makes any other advancement tords you and metions something about a girl friend ...then ...lol..ladies. YOU are in the flirt zone. beware of the man on top of his game because he will make YOU wanted and NOT lay YOU . as far as people staring at you ..well...lol..if you got what im looking for im going to look but i will say hi and depending on your response and your additude ill come say hi and intrudes myself.just ladies ...lol..your only going to look good one time in your LIFE because MOST of YOU will never never EVER see a gym so when a man stares at you ...ENJOY it because one day probably soon meaning in your mid twenties you will start to put on some weight so my suggestion to you is HAVE FUN WITH because one day ...they wont even look your way ...you can find me on myspace szabolcs pinter. and remember boys and girls ...LIFE is LONG its not short by any stretch so have fun your only going to be once that YOU know of so why be so SQUARE ..
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