Monday, 04 May 2009
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Would You Date Someone Smoking Hot or Not?
In an ideal relationship, would you want your significant other to be so hot that everyone always drools over him or her when you both go out?Consider the pros and cons before answering that....
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I think guys are hot that most people wouldn't think were hot, so I think it would be fine if a person I dated was, in my mind, smoking hot.
i have found that people who are considered 'smoking hot' are usually assholes... so maybe not
I think looks are important but I don't think I would want to date someone much better looking than me because I would feel like the relationship was out of balance. And most really good looking guys totally act like they know it.
The "smokin hot" guys that I know have really big egos, something that I can't stand. I don't need a man that other girls are going to drool on.
sure why not, so long as they don't know that they're that hot. ahaha
not. i'd be one the dead...
i have my very own definition of hot so what others think may be hot, i wouldn't necessarily think hot. everyone's opinion is so different from everyone else. what i see attractive to someone else might not be attractive to others.
No. Their ego might be too big for their head.
To answer the question: Probably Not.
There are a few reasons why:
1) While not ugly, I'm not exactly "smoking hot" myself so there's not really a chance of dating anyone "smoking hot" in return because they wouldn't date me.
2) I've known quite a few "smoking hot" people in my life (many are dear friends) and I've noticed that the majority of them have issues: inability to commit, inability to remain faithful, lack of emotional maturity, lack of intelligence, lack of ambition ... Mainly because they've always been treated as though they were these amazing people because they look good. So in turn, they have very large egos and a large ego is a big turn-off.
3) I believe that the person you date should compliment you in every way - and physical appearance, while a part of the entire equation, is definitely NOT at the top of the list of priorities.
It all depends on what is inside, not outside. A "smoking hot" women who's personality is controlled by their ego is not "Smoking hot" on the inside.
Yin and yang have to balance. No balance no attraction.
@mewithoutu77@xanga - I'm the same way. I'll point out a guy I think is hot and my friends will disagree
hate smoking.
Well for the most part "smoking hot" guys have the egos to go with it *shudders* so no.Â
But then you have the exceptions. My first BF was the definition of hotness. And everybody who knew him agreed, it wasn't just me. He was known as the "catch" of the camp we met and would literally get buckets of letters from teenage girls. I felt very proud to be on his arm because I knew he had eyes for me and only me.
I'd feel too out of balance if the guy was smoking hot. I might start getting paranoid about the girls all over him. :P
@steph - Yea, me too. It's probably for the best that I like unconventionally hot guys. Otherwise the girls would be all over my bf, and that is not cool
...many of these comments are assuming that the smoking hot person is an egotistical fuckface. o.O I understand why generalisations must be made, and that's no issue, but I am shocked that almost everyone has made such a prodigious assumption. "People who are riotously attractive almost always have enormous narcissistic ego problems." What the fuck? That's almost like saying "ugly people often are very humble and kind." And even if such things do correlate, correlation does not imply causation! It's fine to note that the extremely sexy folks you've observed have had such issues, but under no circumstances should you attempt to arbitrate personality traits based purely on someone's attractiveness. That's ridiculous!
Also, it seems that you're reading too much into the question. It's not asking "Based on your experience with people you've considered 'smoking hot'..."(whichseems to be the question that most folk have answered...). It is simply asking whether or not you would date someone that you would define as "smoking hot". It does mention weighing the pros and cons, but none of which should have been personality traits! An obvious problem with having a megababe/megahunk for a gf/bf, would be them getting hit on constantly by everyone within 20 yards.
To answer the question; yes. I currently am dating someone I consider to be "smoking hot". While she is very self-confident, I couldn't possibly refer to her as having too big an ego.
Sheesh. You folks seemed awfully superficial right there. =\
No haha
I love how the quality of these posts just keep going down. However, I keep commenting so I don't know what that says about me.
If I were single, and someone who I considered to be "smoking hot" were interested in me, chances are I would go out with them. If our personalities did not really compliment each other, then I wouldn't, same as pretty much any other person. It seems a lot of the people who have commented give way too much power to those they consider good looking. The only reason good looking ass holes are ass holes, is because everyone who admires them makes them that way. If you just acted like they were as crappy as the rest of us, then they'd be normal.
probably not...no matter what, there would still be a part of me that thinks she has a hidden bitch inside of her, even if there isn't. it wouldn't be her fault, but it wouldn't let the relationship work.
I wouldn't want him to be so hot that a bunch of chicks that are way hotter than me would be interested too. That could potentially lead to some problems...
LOL @ this question
i've known tons of people who are both 'smoking hot' and have wonderful, humble personalities... hotness is great if a person's also down-to-earth and faithful. as long as he's not drooling over anyone else, him getting drooled over wouldn't bother me too much (aside from the degrading/objectification aspect).
Omg, I've dated so many ugly guys. lmao.
I dated a guy, so ugly. Seriously.
I dated ONE guy who EVERYONE thought was hot.
I just thought he was cute. not like drop dead gorgeous like everyone was making him seem.
& It's all about personality
Usually the people everyone thinks is hot, I think differently
Sorry but Edward Cullen is NOT hot. Sorry.
He was fucking Cedric, and I ALWAYS said how they screwed that up cuz Cedric was supposed to be hot!!
If they had a great personality, I'd consider myself lucky as all fuck to date someone super hot. On the downside, it would get annoying after a while to have to continually beat off bitches. On the upside, I'd have the guy that all the girls wanted...and all he wanted was me.
Meh, I don't particularly care enough to pursue super hot people anyway. In my ideal relationship, I'd just want my SO to be super hot to my own tastes and vice versa. It doesn't matter all that much what the rest of the world thinks about them as long as we're happy.
okaaaay, so I know this guy who thinks he's the hottest piece of ass on earth... but he's not. I mean I don't think he's cute at all... even though other girls think he is. Maybe it's because I actually take personality into consideration and his SUCKS. No lie, LOL. His ego way too big for his own good, I mean okay, you're really athletic and know some upperclassmen, but honestly? STFU. I don't want to hear your cocky self by me all the time. The thing that sucks is that he used to... or maybe he stills does... like me & is always by me. I've known him for four years and I would never date him. Others think I'm an idiot for saying no to him, but honestly, if he's not ugly on the outside, then his inside sure is pretty ugly.
My point is... I would date a smkoing hot guy ONLY if he has the personality to go with it. If he was smoking hot and full of it, then no, I'll pass =D
@steph - That's a very good answer