Sunday, 03 May 2009
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You Vs. Your SO: Were You Planned?
Were either of you happy accidents, or were you planned? Note: asking your mom and/or dad may result in TMI stories...
We were both planned :)
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I was an accident (and there was two of us, AND we were early. so many surprises :P), he was planned.
Ahhh I honestly don't know if I was planned.
I was the first kid in a Hispanic family. Maybe I was made on their honeymoon? I dunno. lol
both planned!
Planned by my mom, but accident by my dad. She didn't quite let him now she went off birth control.... lolÂ
he was planned. my parents were living in different countries for about 10 years andd then during one of my dad's visits home, my mom got pregnant. 9 months later i was born. i came 10 years after my youngest sister. each of my sisters are 2 years apart. the oldest is 33, second is 31, third is 29... and i'm turning 19 this year :) needless to say i'm babied n spoiled n my sisters loved me...but then i was annoying n they think i can get away with too much. but ehh. the only sucky thing is that since i was born so late i'm scared my parents wont be around for my wedding n children like they r for my sisters cuz they had me at such an old age... but i'm talking too much. sorry =/
I honestly dont know. I'm scared to ask, but I'd like to think I was planned lol. I don't have an SO at the moment so yeah.
i know i was planned...
but i'm not sure about him.
the only thing i know about his birth was that he was a preemie.
I was planned not sure about him
LOL! Well see what had happened was....I know that I was planned by one party....
I was kinda planned. My mother said she wasn't gettng pregnant after she turned 30. If she wasn't pregnant by then she wasn't having anymore kids.
I think I was conceived when she was 29.
I don't think my dad knew about the plan!
Oops!
I wasn't planned.
my mom actually had a weird experience where she suddenly had this feeling overwhelm her, where she just knew she was going to have another girl. she freaked my dad out. haha.
Just curious...why is this a "You vs. Your SO" question?
I haven't actually asked, but I think I was planned. My mom already had my brother 4 years before I was born, and I knew she and my dad didn't want just one kid.
I was a surprised...I think he was planned.
I was planned all along.
he was planned. i was & still am a mistake.
he was planned. i wasnt
my twin and i were a surprise... my boo was planned
My brother and sister are from my moms 1st marriage and both were mistakes. I'm from my moms second marrage and the only kid that was planned.
When I was little and got mad at my brother or sister I would yell "Well you were a mistake and I planned!" and then I would stick my toungue out at them. haha
I have no S.O. so this is just me.
She was planned. I wasn't.
Fairly sure I was not planned...unless my parents had their wedding reception 8 months after they married(my dad has a wedding reception invitation, framed - why? no idea, on his book shelf dated March of the year I was born; I was born in April). Oh, wait, I guess this does not necessarily have to do with planning? Erm, well, I have a feeling my parents got married b/c they got pregnant...they divorced 4 years later.
I don't have a S.O.
i think we're both planned.. :P
I'm pretty sure I was planned. My SO (and both of his brothers, actually) were accidents. His parents don't believe in abortions, and man am I glad! Because they had him and now I have him all to myself

We both weren't planned, lol. My mom told me "i was throwing up a lot and feeling very sick. I went to the doctors and he told me I was pregnant and I said 'what?!'" but they were happy with me :)
My boyfriend's parents already had two kids and didn't want another one. But before she made up her mind on whether or not to have an abortion, his mom went to a chinese fortune-teller lady and she told them that my boyfriend would be a tremendous amount of help to their family and that they should keep him. So they listened, and .. yay otherwise I wouldn't have met him. And he does help a lot. My boyfriend has older brother, older sister, him, younger sister. very cute.
I think I was planned, haven't asked but my mom remarried my dad, were together for two years before they had me. I think my dad was 30 and my mom was like 27 and my dad wanted a kid so it was time to get going! haha
As for him, his mom actually go pregnant with him while she was on birth control... so definitely not planned. But i'm so glad he came anyways =)I wasn't planned.
I was planned. My bf wasn't planned.