Miss Alligator
When I told my best friend from home that my boyfriend and I had sex every other day or so, she told me she thought that was too much. However, now that she and her boyfriend are having sex, she's singing a different tune. They go at it a few times a day. To me, that's a little ridiculous. Makes me wonder what else they do in their free time, haha!
If/when you've had an SO with whom you've regularly had sex, how often did/do you do it? How much sex is too much? Is there even such a thing?
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How could there be too much of a good thing when it comes to sex?
There can be too much sex when it isn't good sex... But there can never be too much good sex. (:
mmm sometimes we go a week or so without it - other times only a few hours! It just depends =)
Yes, there can be such a thing as too much sex.
It's not that the sex itself would "go bad"
But rather, if it was absorbing too much time and other things ended up getting neglected, that would be a problem.
Try telling that to someone that isnt getting ANY sex.
i wouldn't know. but too much of anything is never good for you.
I have a friend that would say too much sex is not possible. But I think it is. Too much would happen when you're fucking so much that you get nothing else in your life done. ^_~
There is never too much when it's a good thing. Opinions always change after 2 or 3 kids pop out though.
My boyfriend and I have sex everyday.
Never gets old lmao.
& it's always fun.
I think for CERTAIN people, it may be too much.
My best friend doesn't like to have sex everyday.
Thats what she tells me.
But then when I tell her I have sex everyday she goes "Lucky" lmao.
That's the most ridiculous thing to ever say to a military girlfriend/wife. No, there's no such thing.
@italktotrees@xanga - awwwwwwwwww!!! hahahhahhaha
*pats on back*=)
HELL NO!!!
When you're not having any...no
Yeah, there is. It gets old.
I feel like sometimes when people are having a lot of sex it's because they don't have the balance needed in their relationship. I've seen friends get too focused on physical intimacy and they lose the emotional part of the relationship.
I think its too much when basically all you and your SO are doing together is having sex.
My boyfriend and I are currently long distance, so we don't get to have sex often. But when we get together, the built up hormones get the best of us and we can go 3 times a day a couple of days in a row.
@nbdyzangel@xanga - I'm in the same boat. The built up hormones get the best of you. Least it's super hot.
I think there is such a thing. Right now I'm having that problem. I focus on that too much, more than the entire relationship. Not good in my opinion. Granted this is really the first time I think I've found the one, and the first guy I have sex with on a regular basis, so I can see why I can get so wanting to do more with it. Trying to have it on more special occasions and such, so we don't get sick of it or something. Who knows.
it's only too much if your ding-a-ling falls off.
Yes, there is such a thing as too much sex. This would be if sex was taking up so much time that it had a negative effect on the quality of your life in other areas (for example, you get fired because you've missed work to have sex too many times; you lose touch with your friends/family because you're too busy having sex to socialize). I also imagine the equipment might get a little sore if you weren't lubing properly and taking care!
That being said, you can definitely have sex a few times a day and still have time for socializing, work, etc.
@DarkButtercup94@xanga - Well, we don't base our relationship on sex when we d o get to see each other. We definitely go out and do other couple types of things, but we probably do have sex more often during the day since we're long distance than we would if we were seeing each other on a regular basis. We have been together for over 3 years and he's the only guy I've been having sex with regularly and I think he might possibly even be the one.
@nbdyzangel@xanga -
I'm in the same boat, whenever my boyfriend and I do get to see each other, we got at it a few times a day. But if we end up spending maybe like a week together or more, it happens less frequently.. and at spurts.. some times we got a few days without it, and then other times a few times in the day.
The main thing is as long as there's a balance of emotional and physical aspects in a relationship. I think there can be too much sex if it gets in the way of other parts of the relationship.. or its used to ignore other issues.
I suppose it depends on why you're having sex. Are you banging simply for the sake of orgasm, or is each riotous bout of the horizontal tango an erotic physical manifestation of love?
No such thing as too much sex...unless one partner wants it and the other doesn't. Then that might cause some problems.
No such thing.
it's okay as long as you don't let it define your relationship and as long as you don't let it turn into just that. when you get into a new relationship and you decide to start having sex it's a new thing so you constantly want to be doing it but i think after a while it should be toned down a little. that's just me.