Miss Reindeer Mine is 4. I have had sex with 4 men. At the age of 23, that's not too bad I don't think. But I'll be honest with you, I pretty much thought I was going to cap it off at 4. Well that is no longer the case, friends. I had sex for the first time relatively late compared to some (20). I wanted to wait for somebody I loved, but with my 21st birthday looming, I started to feel pretty lame. (This is just me; I think everyone personally knows when the time is right even if it's later. I'm not judging the late bloomers! I was one myself.) So I was seeing this guy for a couple weeks and at that point I was like "What the hell? Let's do this!" I don't regret it, but when that relationship fizzled out I was totally on the prowl.
I had two one-night stands within a few weeks of each other, which was REALLY uncharacteristic of me, but again, no regrets. After that I was in a monogamous relationship for nearly two years, bringing my number to 4.
With said relationship over, I have recently gone off the Pill and now I am insatiably horny for a good portion of the day. The Pill decreased my sex drive a fair amount and now it's back with a vengeance. I can almost guarantee that "H" (from my previous rebound post) and I will be doing the deed pretty soon what with all the "sexting" going on. A girl has needs, you know. I
suppose I have a few gadgets lying around that can get the job done, but sometimes you just need to feel the weight of a man on you.
So my number is going to rise to 5. A whole damn hand. I know "H" and I will never get married, which will inevitably bring my number to 6. Or 7. Potentially 30! (God, I hope not. I loved
Sex and the City, but I don't aspire to be like those women when it comes to relationships. Again, though, personal choice. Not judging those with the number 30!) I just don't know. I guess I'm a bit startled by my increasing number, considering I put off having sex for so long because it was important to me.
5 might not seem like a lot to you, readers. Or you might just think I'm a big old whore. I guess it's all relative. So tell me, what's your number? Have any of you lost count? Are you content with your number or embarrassed by it?
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My number is 1.
I don't feel proud or embarassed about my number, just lucky. I hope it doesn't ever have to go up, but who knows what life has in store? Right now I'm thrilled and in love with the man that number represents(5+ years now).
I don't think my number is anyone's business and why are we sharing again?
This post is a fail. It's so shallow to judge someone solely on how many partners they've had.
My # is 2.... and I actually wish it was still :\
Sex with guys? 16.
I am also 23, and had sex for the first time at 15 and not again till I was 17.
I wish it were lower because I have made some mistakes, but mostly I'd probably just switch the who's not the numbers...
But I'm not ashamed, and I'm not afraid to share my number (obviously).
My number is 1 and were still together.
Am feel happy and fortunate to be in love happy and content.
4 is not bad. one nighters aint cool though
I am a virgin, so my number would be zero. It's not always been easy, but I am waiting to share it with my future wife. I don't judge or condemn those who didn't though.
To those who will inevitably post here, or at least think about it, saying there "number" is too high, there is forgiveness and healing, it is found in Christ.
To those offended, I'm putting that fire-retardent suit on now, flame on, I'm ready. (Probably won't reply to flames though.)
my number is 15. I'm 20 years old and I've been at it since 15 (I should actually say 16. I lost it a week before my 16th birthday). I think the number is more impressive when you think about the fact that 12 of those guys came from my last 2 years. lol
I'm not ashamed by the number, but I do wish it wasn't so high. I'm thinking about going to a therapist. I have a feeling I might actually be addicted to sex.
Um 0? What's the point of this post again? If it's really addressing the title, then...yes, I'm fine with being a virgin.
I'm not. But I probably wouldn't divulge it willingly either.
lost count.
I'm at 5, but every one was someone I've deeply cared for at some point in my life. I won't be naive and say I loved them all, but I had deep feelings for all. Only one of them was a continuous sexual relationship which I feel better about as well, and that is my current SO. I'm honestly glad I can say that I can count all of my partners on one hand. So 5 isn't too bad. I'm with the person I want to be with, and he doesn't mind so I try not to. Sometimes I look back on the past and feel slutty, but I remind myself that times have changed, and more people have double digit partners, and they can't all say that they've cared for every single person they've been with. In the end it's really all about how YOU feel, not anyone else. Although I'd try and keep it to your fingers, and not include your toes. :)
yes i am okay with my number
I think if someone sleeps with someone, who is promiscuous, then their number multiplies by about 50. so for example one person only had one partner but that partner was the promiscuous type, so the original person's numbers practically becomes 50...and if one person sleeps with 10 people but those 10 were coicidentally all virgins, then they remain at 10 partners. that is how I personally calculate it. as for my number, it isn't in the skank range
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Zero for me. I'm saving myself for marriage.
My number is currently at 6. I do feel like that's too high for me, personally, especially at my age...but last summer was crazy. We'll just say that.
And I actually regret all of them except my boyfriend right now because it's a serious relationship (we've been together 6 months) and the rest were all just one night things with some random friends of mine. Alcohol doesn't help make the best decisions. Hopefully my number will just stay at 6 though, I think I'm done =)I am happy with mine which is zero, since I have never had a girlfriend or did not want to just date someone that one wanted me just to her s** at her house after the date.
I'm not going to disclose my number because it's no one's business, but I don't think the number of people you have slept with matters. So what if it's 0 or 235723947329. Does it make you good or bad person? No. Does it have any type of meaning on your life? No. It's the story or stories behind the number that says something about you, not the number itself.
lol this post isn't fail, it's hot.
As long as they were STD-free, I could honestly care less if a girl has slept with 1 guy or 30 guys. Anything more than 30 is just skanky though...j/k it really doesn't matter! =P
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But seriously, when I get married you can bet it's on like Donkey Kong.
I think it's awesome you've come to terms with every number and how it happened. I'm sad I probably got my first number from a total fagmo, and number two was just playing me. But I'm saving three for hopes of that "The Third Time's the Charm" saying...
I think everyone at some point in there life will regret having sex with at least one of there partners. Wether they admit it or not. Becuase once it doesnt work out, you just want to take everything back.
I'm at 1. Still on number 1 actually.
virgin...
my numbers two, and i'm fine with that. one was a serious relationship, and one was just a friendly hookup now and then. i don't think people should be judged on their 'number', but by their intentions. if you PLAN to sleep with tons of guys because you want to look like a hoe, thats different.