Tuesday, 21 April 2009

  • What Makes Your SO Perfect In Your Eyes?

    We all have flaws and not-so-good qualities hidden somewhere in us all, but we also possess some of the most wonderful characteristics that make us who we are. You might say that you have the most "perfect boyfriend" or "perfect girlfriend"...well, I would like to know what makes them "perfect" in your eyes.

    Personally, I think I am quite a stubborn person. That might not be a favourable trait, but it is who I am. What are the qualities or traits of your SO that makes them who they are today?

    It doesn't need to be the most obvious ones like being funny, cute, considerate, loving, etc., so think outside the box! It can be weird or funny quirks that they possess that can surely brighten up your days. Example: They like to eat sweet and chili sauce with practically everything. 

Comments (51)

  • mikeylohsu@xanga

    I can't describe it.
    She's just something in my eyes.
    That's something sometimes you just can't describe.
    You just stare at her in her eyes, and get mesmerized.

    But she's not perfect. Only imperfect people strives to be better and better.

    I can tell she's the perfect imperfection I guess!

  • wolvenchic@xanga

    He does a million small things that he knows I would love, Im  not talking about buying me stuff...but doing small things and showing his love. I love the fact that he knows that cuddling is not sex, but can go together hand and hand quite well. When angry, he will never leave angry and wont let me leave angry. He has been my crying shoulder when Im snot -ridden and definately at my worst....there are so many things, but I think the best thing is that he knows me and loves me..for me! He takes my breath away!

  • goD_I_V_Aunc10@xanga

    how quick he is willing to make up after a fight <3

  • addyorable@xanga

    I love the fact that half of the time, he understands me more than I understand myself.

  • NatalieTheSaint@xanga

    The fact that he's invisible and only I can see him.

  • Blissfulnesss@xanga

    he drives me crazy and when i'm at the point of exploding, he comes back with something sweet and i'll be melting all over again. hahahah

  • mynameisblueskye@xanga

    What makes my girlfriend wonderful is knowing that she isn't perfect and SHE knows that, too. She jsut does what she does, I tolerated everything she is, and so far, it is like we were both BFF! There is something about that girl that makes me wonder where she has been all my life. Hehe!

  • a_single_raindrop@xanga

    My boyfriend and I fight a lot, and though he doesn't always try to make it up to me afterwards, I love him so much. He's loud, demanding and not shy (which is pretty much opposite of me) and he doesn't care what other people think of him. He's always there for me ... providing advice when I don't need it, and I know that he'll do anything he can to come see me if he's on the other side of the world. He picks me up from college and drives me home. He sends me cute text msgs (when I demand him to heh) and he lets me pluck his eyebrows (LOL) haha ... in no way is he perfect, but I know that he'd do anything for me and that's what makes me love him so much and think he's perfect for me.

  • turtletastic

    He can be totally immature and childish in his sense of humor and I LOVE it because I am too... But we're both only like that with each other and are all maturelike around other college students of course. :)

  • mysteriousromantic@xanga

    He's not perfect but I love him for who he is and what he has brought into my life.

  • anonymous

    he is my sunshine

  • fugita@xanga

    She fills my heart with joy and happiness.

  • ZepBlueEyedGirl@xanga

    What makes him "perfect"?  Everything.  Every last thing about him - he's amazing in his imperfections and that he can love all of mine.

  • gatorgirl54@xanga

    I used to think my ex-boyfriend was perfect.

    He had the ability to stay calm and reasonable when I was going psycho on him, saying things that probably should upset him.

    I love the way he says "thank you" differently from everyone else, and he doesn't know how to change it.

    He was unbelievably tender with me, taking such good care of me, though if he thought I was being unreasonable he would bring it up calmly.

    Lol and he was so so careful not to ever physically hurt me. =) He made me feel like a doll sometimes.

  • Amyx3zyou22@xanga

    When I flip out and go crazy he just tells me he loves me and I'm hurting him and I instantly calm down. Or one the rare occasions when he does get mad back hes quick to apologize and make things better. He puts me before anyone and is always there for me no matter what. He forgives my flaws and believes in me when I don't even believe in myself. He has this child like innocents about him and cant even kill a icky beetle. He makes me smile. Hes my everything, and that's why I love him :)

  • j_u_l_e_i@xanga
    the way he drives so damn crazy... The way he answers my simple questions (I ask him what time it is and he explains the whole mechanism of the clock) *sigh the way he begs when he wants to make up after a fight...the way he says baaahh (like a sheep LOL) when I say baahh! I could go on and on! He's the perfect someone just for me!
  • xtine015@xanga

    I wish i had a SO so i can look into those perfection eyes. heehee

  • RazorBladeParade@xanga

    She's versatile; immature with me one moment, serious and intellectual the next.

    And she hides notes in the stuff I take to work with me.

  • lidool_bonnie@xanga

    i can be stupid, immature and do really childish stuff around him and he wouldn't judge me for it, he actually joins in.
    his always so warm, his like my personal heater in winter.
    the way he always catches me when i fall and carries me or gives me piggy backs everywhere.
    damn, the list just goes on... LOL

  • StargazingSuzie@xanga

    What makes my boyfriend perfect in my eyes, when I'm being a pain in the arse he's still there, and still loves me and doesn't want to leave me, and if I cry he'll wipe my tears away and dry my face. He has his imperfections such as his jealousy and paranoia but I know he cares and I love him just the way he is. And he always sends me cute mail on bebo every night. =)

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  • chelly500@xanga

    i like the fact that as much as i think he might not get it.. he definitely does! theres more willingness there than i give him credit for. so he always seems to amaze me

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  • nowayout001@xanga

    I do not have a boyfriend, but I have a crush on someone. He is not perfect, I know it; but I love him just the way he is. I do not see myself as a perfect person, but I am who I am. I am headstrong and I do whatever it takes to get what I TRULY want. If you get in my way, I bash you out. I keep all my promises even if that would endanger my life. I have the personality of a warrior, I value strength more than alignment. I don't care whether I am good or evil as long as I am strong. I do not deliberately do evil things, but I am quite rebellious and I have a questioning mind. I am faithful and the others' opinions cannot change me. I have a strong sense of self and I believe that a man can lose everything but his true self. If I was not living as my true self, I would be better off dead. I like friends, the more the merrier. I am honest with them and I enjoy their company. But when some of them betrayed me, I could readily switch myself off from them. I am fiercely independent and impartial. I am strictly territorial, if you trespass my turf without my consent, I will bite you, regardless of who you are, even if you were my mother. People often think that I am stuck-up and overreactive, they think that I am just trying to be a drama queen. I stand up for my beliefs, many people cannot take me because I am too assertive and some of them regard that as aggression. I never like to make the first move unless provoked. I do unto others what I don't mind to be done unto myself. I am weird and abnormal, and I stand out, that's why people always picked on me. I did not cry in front of my attackers, no matter how hard or how many times you strike me, I will not fall in front of you. This is me! And I reveal my true self to everyone, but my family. How ironic... My family cannot accept that I am a weirdo. My mother tried so hard to change me but it didn't go her way, in fact, it went the other way. I don't want people to be afraid of living in their true forms, I want people to be free of those fears. I don't want people to deny their true selves in order to embrace the rest of the world. Each one of us is a unique individual, and we have the right to be who we are. That's what I believe in! I have a moral code that is different from most people's, but that doesn't mean that I am inclined to rebel and behave anti-socially. I embrace outcasts and I accept aliens. I befriend those who are lonely and those who just want to have a place in this world. I am honestly not quite intelligent and I don't think I am anywhere near being wise. I am not gorgeous or attractive. I think I am not incredibly grateful being born like this, but I still let God have my gratitude for giving me such strength in body and power in mind to endure all hardships being thrown to me by fate.

  • brokenheels@xanga

    Confident and yet quiet men.

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