Start diggin gurl friend

I totally know how you feel. I just blogged about this yesterday, and honestly, it is VERY rare to find a decent guy if not a total gentleman. These guys are pigs & think they can openly objectify women... and the sad part is that they can really get to us and make us feel low. You should do what I do, curse them out or give them the finger... classic, hahaha =P

Ugh.
I definitely need a creep repellent too.
I don't think that you and I are creep magnets though. I just think that they are so many creepers out there, that it would be hard to avoid them all.

Do any of you girls (it's stagerring that you refer to yourselves as 'ladies'!) ever take a moment's time out from being utterly consumed by yourselves, and actually imagine what it's like to be one of those men, those alleged "creeps" that you constantly reject?

No?

Thought not.

But you should.

You know the affect you have on men ( you learn the affect you have on boys at a young age)...you know that men need you, however, whilst still expecting men to perform the bulk of the hard labour in society, and taking advantage of, and for granted, the gamut of ideas, inventions, services, infrastructure, resources and energy provided by men...you then condemn the majority of men to "their place', off in the background somewhere...you don't need to sully yourselves with them...you spurn, reject and mock...and when any male actually likes you, ventures forth to approach you...then HE'S the "creep"??!!

And add all the attendent put down's, smears, and insults, put upon men nowadays...along with "creep", you've got plenty of hackneyed chestnuts, "sicko", "psycho", "predator", "pig", "low life", and "loser", in your arsenal of bitchy insults.

And very few men could ever live up to the contradictory, contrary, super-human, convoluted, paralysing, castrated, debased, degraded, impossible expectations of what now constitutes a 'normal and respectful man'!!!

How about YOU all getting back to showing some genuine respect for men as well?!

Things have gotten so out of control, so far from what life is meant to be...so superficial, so vain, so shallow, so sick...it's shocking I have to remind you of this, but...men actually really like women, we're meant to...and, in case you've gotten so full of yourselves that you've forgotten, you're actually meant to like men back.

Yes, granted, some guys...after years of prolonged rejection...have some bad ways of showing their appreciation...but most men are really good, most men come to you honestly, and still get labelled a "creep".

And yes, men are going to look at you. Would you really rather they didn't?

I've taken years of rejections from girls and women...and yet, still, like being called to my doom on the rocks by the siren's call, I still can't help but notice girls and women everywhere I go, and suffer the snide looks, the dismissal...and I've gotten to the point where I either close my eyes, or I stare...I goggle-eyed stare my ass off at them...like a "creep", you think?

All of you women (who I know will NEVER be able to grasp the heaviness and intensity of male love and sexual passion!)...must though start to at least show some genuine sympathy for us, at least try and imagine things from our persepective for a second.                              ( Of course, as that most evil sin of "lesbianism" catches on so much now, and girls and "women" are 'checking each other out', 'coming on' to each other, "hooking up" with each other, going on about each other now, so aggressively, so rampantly... that's all "okay" right?...that's "okay", because it's "hot", right?....WRONG!)

At least attempt to imagine things from our side...don't be so cruel, don't be so insensitive...and don't be so rash in so hurriedly labelling the victims of your beauty as "creeps".

You say you're "fed up" with men?...what conceit!...imagine if anyone said that about anyone else??!!

And, there's the real kicker...you ask if men know how extinct we are?

Wooahhh, you cold, callous, heartless bitch !

That is the awful way a lot of 'people' are pushing things now...a friend of mine wrote a song about this particularly evil trend.

You don't think that many of us know that dark forces are trying to force our extinction??

Well, though you flit through life ignorantly unaware of so much that you take from men, and owe men for...take us away, and you won't last long. Though certain 'groups' are trying to fabricate a homogenised, sterile, vapid "male-free" 'world', it hasn't happened yet, nor will it.

If you wrote that any other group of people was going extinct, besides men, with such callous glee...there would be an outcry...but men are expected to keep on wearing these insults!...well, no more.

Wake up...our extinction, leads directly and inextricably to your extinction !...

It happens to all of us females.

So, if I were you, I'd just take it as a form of compliment (no matter how disgusting the fool and his gestures may be) and just go on bout your business.

@S_K_O_T@xanga - you've got issues or you're reading too much into this entry.

no one's trying to take men for granted. really, the entry is about the quintessential "creep" who thinks they can make a comment of an intimate nature to a female stranger. This is overstepping boundaries and it makes people, men and women, uncomfortable.

And choose your words wisely. What do women "owe" men that men don't "owe" back to women? Respect? Please start by not whistling at a lady like she's an object.

Free creep repellent is called body odor!

I am a total creep magnet.

you don't have to dress provocative to attract unwanted attention. wearing hoodies, loose fitting clothing and other similar items that cover up most your body can be simply that you like dressing casually or it could also imply that you are insecure, so some guys might see that and since some girls, who dress more boldly might be sexier but that might also imply that they have an attitude and will probably call the guy out directly for being an a-hole or confront him in his face to stop....while the insecure looking girl seems more vulnerable so if he were to make advances at her, she might be too shy to directly say anything to his face, such as what you did for example...basically, some guys are picking what they think are easier targets to objectify. and you staring back at that one guy probably made him automatically presume that you are also interested, which wasn't the case, but some guys might get the wrong mixed signals or they are just desperate for attention so you staring back means means to them that you're showing some interest. I usually don't pay any attention to guys that try to flirt with me and act like they don't exist if I'm not interested in that way and they are usually too intimidated by me, since I apparently look mad and give off this b***tchy vibe most of the time *lol* however, I have experienced guys, who were "creepy" but I usually label them as "creepy" if I don't find them attractive and if they are cute, then I don't think they're that creepy if even if they do whistle at me, since it is more flattering than insulting when the flirty or crude remarks are from a cute guy. I'm superfically biased lol then again, don't some guys usually try to flirt with females that they are attracted to, so they can be just as superficial. anyway, maybe it isn't the way you dress but your body language makes you a "creep target."

@missedout_onlife@xanga - I'll sell you some, but we have to keep it on the down low since it's made with some illegal products.  Shhh!

hahaha!  "I'm sensing a common theme here - maybe all the creeps hang out at the library?"
YES! I work at the library, I can testify to that.

@missedout_onlife@xanga - Hmmmm.  I suppose this is the reason why I would suck at being a drug dealer XP