Friday, 10 April 2009
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Friday Fun: How Has Your SO Changed You?
I bake more, I'm slightly less frustrated about little things (mainly public transportation and finding a wifi signal - I have no patience whatsoever) and I've gotten much lovey-dovier. Awwww...
How have you changed your SO? How has he or she changed you?
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Well, seeing as we've only been in this relationship for almost two months [[sunday babyyy ^_^]], there's not many changes, but the changes I've noticed are quite amazing :]
For instance...I'm much more calm, and not so frustrated by the little things [[at least, I'd like to think so]], and am more willing to try new things.
According to his friends, he's much happier than he's ever been, and that's definitely progress :]♥
There are a lot of things that have changed about me.
1. I seem to always look at the bigger picture now.
2. I'm too happy sometimes...lol
3. More intimate
4. Become more understanding
She's made me quieter, nicer, happier, and maybe a little less humorous.
And a better kisser.
My wife of 53 years turned me into a man.
Fun Firday ? More like Good Friday !
She got me into modern art :)
He helped me lose weight in an offbeat sort of way. He made me look at the brighter side of things. He's helped me with my relationship with church. He made me want to live for more. :)
well....he doesnt need to changed me....i changed for him cuz i think he deserve it...and he is worth it...
I'm bitter and overly sardonic.
Ah, love.
Hmm... it made me dislike being alone more (kinda a bad thing), I tell people I care about them more now. Not just him, but my friends and family. I'm also able to help my friends more with advice and what not :)
I own a Nintendo DS. I've never played video games until I met him.
I've become more balanced - more rational/objective, and less of an emotional mess. He told me not to worry so much, so I feel more light-hearted towards life. On the flip side, I am teaching him to become more emotional. He's a cold person, where even giving hugs was unnatural.
I am more domestic.. I have learned to cook & started baking more. I am more patient.. like you wouldn't believe it. My temper is the worst. I have a tougher skin & can tolerate a lot more.. I used to be extremely sensitive to everything.
Him..
He became a better student. He stopped gambling. He started cooking. He cut down on the amount of video/computer games he'd play. His temper toned down & his patience grew. [haha. 2 people with horrible tempers together..] He has developed his communication skills [although it's not entirely there yet.]
The list kinda goes on.. & @chPanda@xanga - I totally hear ya on the video games~ I've played once or twice before I met the boy but I never played it on a regular basis until him. >.<
I've become less of a bitch and not a flirt anymore. I've learned what committment means. I'm a really good girlfriend, thanks to him.
He saved my life. That's the first thing that comes to mind. Definitely an influential man.
I used to be VERY self conscious. I had terribly low self esteem and I always kept my gaze to the ground as I walked. Now I walk wherever I want with my head held high.
believe it or not, time management. Before I didn't have much of it, but now I have been better at juggling school, A boyfriend, a job, all the chores I need to and chilling out with friends! Honestly its made my life less hectic. He also has helped me not to cry as much anymore, and to try and be quick to "do something" about my problems until waiting until the last minute to do something.
I know that Ive helped him realize that when he is upset, he takes it out on others and he has gotten so much better with that and has been a lot happier than prior. He has also learned priority of people VS video games.
@chPanda@xanga - haha same here!
He's helped me to live a more balanced life, and to realize that there really are good men out there.
In the past, I would have settled. Thinking there were no good men. Now, even if things didn't work out with my boyfriend, I'd have much higher standards than I used to. And I'd wait around for someone who met them.
Apparently, I'm a cat person now.
He got me into MMO's. =]
I'm able to keep composure when I get an upsetting phone call from family.
I can state my point without yelling.I can get angry and irritated easily. He's really relaxed which helps me relax.I have been with my so for about 3 years now. Every year has been a journey and i certainly have changed a lot.
1. I used to be a nerd, uni was my all, i dressed daggily in t shirts and jeans, looked like a kid, very immature (everything has to be my way), pretended to be nice a lot but really wasn't, depressed a lot and much much skinnier (which was unhealthy, I'm only 45kg now).
2. Now, I'm more understanding, more attentive, show my emotions for him more, think a lot less believe it or not (I was always an over thinker), a lot more independent, a lot happier, and more fashion savvy.
Mind you, i don't know whether he changed me or uni did, but I'm sure his encouragement towards me during uni (i was under immense stress, constantly broke down, and well, he was my punching bag a lot of the times)
lol.. I made myself sound like a terrible person.. haha.. i might have exaggerated a bit. ^__^, maybe we should hear my SO's side in this and i will sound like the angel.
he got me into naps! :]
I am more patient and more understanding.