Wednesday, 08 April 2009
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He Untagged Himself from The Pictures We Were In Together
Friday night, my friend invited me to hang out with her and three of her guy friends. I don't know them that well and I'd only met two of them once before, but I was bored and I haven't seen my girl in so long, I didn't care where or who I was with as long as I got to spend time with her. The five of us headed out to Edgewater to eat dinner and hang around town for a bit.Two of the guys were French and the other guy was Korean. After a few hours of getting to know one another, we head back to one of the guys' homes to drink and chill until whenever. The guy/girl ratio was 3:2, so needless to say, after a few shots of alcohol, there were a lot of flirting going around.
I took bunch of pictures throughout the night and there were about 10 pictures I took with the Korean guy, which I thought we both looked nice in. I could tell he liked me by the way he was leaning on me, touching my hands and massaging my neck and whatnot. We did not kiss but we were still pretty intimate in other ways.
He decided it was time to leave and hugged me as though he really meant it... and it made me happy, to say the least :)
The next night, I posted the pictures on Facebook, and he told me he liked the pictures...but then eventually untagged himself from all the pictures we were in together but left the other tagged pictures of himself and with other people alone. I swear to you that I do not look all that bad in them, and neither does he.
Am I being a bit too neurotic or should I be worried that he may think I'm ugly?
What the hell does this mean!?
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show us your facebook pictures and we'll let you know. hahahha
Really, I can't think of any reason why unless he has a girlfriend or someone that doesn't like you or is jealous of you so he untagged the pictures so he won't get into trouble.
I'm pretty sure you're very bothered by it, and if you are ... why don't you ask him. Because you probably won't find out why nor will you feel settled until you get a straight answer from him.
Honestly, the only person who can tell you that is him. Ask him.
that is strange. just be like, whyd you untag yourself? :(
as bad as it sounds, he's probably into someone right now and doesn't want her to see the pictures that maybe look like he's involved with someone else....or it is possible he has a girlfriend and doesn't want her to see that he is out flirting with someone better looking. Boys will be boys and he may just be trying to cover something us
he didn't realize that there was going to be ummm evidence? ;) idk...
that little mtfk probably didn't want any evidence.
my ex set his tagged photos settings so that only i can see it and nobody else can. until i hacked on his fb account one day and found out that he's been deceiving me. he didn't want ppl to see tagged pics of us so he can get new gf's...i should've slit his throat.
Im guessing he has a girlfriend or he has someone he likes that doesnt want to be jelous. But I don't know why he was that rude to do that. Ditch him.
maybe someone told him you're crazy and he's embarrassed?
lol
Show us the pictures and we'll let ya know.
He could have not wanted tagged pictures of himself intoxicated floating around the facebook world. Everyone can see them - coworkers, potential employers, hell even family members. I used to wonder why my bf did that, until I started applying for jobs and saw many articles about employers using that against them. Pretty sure it wasn't cause of you or anything.
But, never know until you ask.
you're being neurotic. Don't take it personal. He may be the type that goes through his pictures occationally and just untags some, but not all. I do the same thing quite often, I pick a few of my favorites and untag the rest....it's facebook, it's not the end of the world.
probably not because he thinks you're ugly but his friends might think that you're ugly and he is self conscious about being teased by his homies, who were joking around...but he is still insecure about the pics? or you guys were shown partying/drinking in them and he doesn't want to have a reputation that he is a player? or it was just a friendly one time touchy feel-y thing and nothing more, so he untagged himself from pics as not to lead you on? to be sure, just ask him.
If he doesn't think you're unattractive, maybe he doesn't want evidence of that night to show he was with another girl. Maybe he's interested in other girls, maybe he's a player, maybe he's got a girlfriend. Nobody will know except him.
You didn't know him before, right? So other than a few hours of partying, you've never hung out with him. If you're racking your brain over him untagging some pictures after just a few hours, you are being neurotic, yes.
@DarkButtercup94@xanga - That's probably why.
Check to see if there were cups or if there was evidence of alcohol in the pics. If not, then he's probably just trying to keep himself available by not having "intimate" pics of himself with girls.
job, family facebook friends, girlfriend you dont know about..
I think it's cuz he had a relationship going on or something, and pictures of him and you might damage it.
just ask
I think you're taking it too personally.
But who knows, maybe he has a girlfriend? Ask him yourself.
Maybe he just doesn't feel that way about you. I don't want to say that the few shots you guys had were acting up, but that's all I can think of with the given evidence. If you're close friends, ask him why. If not, you could still ask, but maybe in a more playful tone. Maybe he's involved with someone, now. Good luck!
maybe he has a girlfriend and is hiding it from her
@DarkButtercup94@xanga - I agree with you.
the only person who can give you an answer is him... you can't assume that he's an a-hole or that he's a womanizer or anything. You just gotta hear it from him.
Definitely ask him! It doesn't seem like it has anything to do with you since he seemed interested in you at the time. Keep us updated!
maybe he have a secret girlfriend? I'd say just stay away from him... but then again, you can ask him if you want