Wednesday, 08 April 2009
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Dear Future Husband
Dear Future Husband,I wonder if I know you or have yet to meet you. Either way, I know I think about you all the time. I know you are out there because I can feel your presence when I close my eyes. Though I may not know everything about you, I do know a few things. I know you will respect, love and care for me.
When I think about you, I wonder what you are doing right now. What are you doing matters to me. It matters because the choices you make and things you do are determining what kind of a man you are and will be. I want you have self-respect because you can't be expected to respect me or others without respecting yourself first.
I know that while you will be attracted to physical beauty, you will be able to stare straight into my heart. Through seeing my heart, I know you will you help me to break down my walls that have caged me in due to my past. We will be able to share our deepest secrets with one another without fear of judgment.
Most importantly, I know you will help me understand what it means to truly love someone because of the love you will give me daily. You will be the best thing that has ever happened to me. As we embark on our journey together, our love will only grow and flourish.
I want you to know that I don't plan on settling for anything less than you. I am working on being the right woman for you. I know we won't have a flawless relationship. I have my faults and you are expected to have yours as well. The beauty is that we will be able to accept each other's flaws regardless because of the love we will share. There will be times that we will fight. I know this because sometimes I am too stubborn. Despite being headstrong, I will always strive to put you first. Though at times I may fail, know that I will always work towards becoming a better woman, even after we are married.
Thanks for waiting for me,
Your future wife,
Melissa
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Comments (57)
cute :)
aww that was nice :)
I wished my husband would of wrote me a "Dear Future Wife" letter and let me read it when he married me. :)
Aw. I like this.
That was sweet =]. I hope you already know him, just to cancel out some of the hassle =] Haha.
I started writing letters to my future husband when I was 14. I had probably about 15-20 of them that I had written and I gave them to my husband on our wedding day. He deployed soon after and took them with him. He said they are some of his most treasured possessions.
This is very sweet!!! Keep a copy of this and give it to him when you get married.....he will GREATLY appreciate it!
That's the way it should be!
hehe i wrote one too last year ,,he
he but it was more about when is he gg to turn up!really cute letter :)
Ladies and Gentlement, Count Orsino! What you wrote is very romantic and touching, I grant you that; however, it's so ordinary and very idealistic. What you wrote about is basically the same stuff everybody thinks about when they fantasize or date that dream person as well as what tehy think about before marriage. Both of which are also hilarious considering how quickly the real world catches up to them and they just realize that love alone is not enough.
It's touching stuff, don't get me wrong. Just be careful and don't let yourself swoon over any guy that's a sweet-talking bum. Be lovelorn, be able to chance a relationship, be able to risk it all, I encourage that!!! Just don't let your lovelust blind you from your better judgment.
I wrote something like this just a while back
http://doubledb.xanga.com/694159928/hello-beautiful/
I liked yours as well!
awwwww =)
your in for a disappointment. We dont live in a Disney world. Sorry to sound so harsh.. but life will catch up to you
@SandPaperTears666@xanga - I've dated & lived in the world...its not unrealistic at all
That's a lot of expectations for one guy. . .
@iCnTkeEpPromiSeS@xanga - if love and respect are too many expectations, then he isn't for me.
@Eternal_Nocturne@xanga - I'm pretty smart :]
I can totally be romantic and over the top..
swooooooooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnn....................
but then..i realize.
i'm too young for this...no no future husband. future bf!
cliche.
@NoPenniesHere@xanga - have you ever lived without ur parents
i've written a few of these myself, and finally i started thinking, this is ridiculous. i'm wasting time. who even knows if i'll ever get married. so i stopped writing them and started writing to REAL people i already knew.
the end.
that was really nice
that's really sweet. =)
aw this is the perfect letter :)
Well written, now I hope that I can be that person for my future wife. Who/where ever she is...
Aw, cutee :3 .