Tuesday, 07 April 2009

  • Hooking Up with An Uncircumcised Guy Was Gross

    So I recently hooked up with a guy who is uncircumcised, and let me tell you, that won't happen again! 

    I know it seems shady, but I've always been with circumcised guys and seeing/touching/feeling a penis that wasn't just turned me off!  Personally, I like the swell of a free penis head, but the extra moving skin he had made felt weird in my hand.

    Uncircumcised penises need more cleaning, and this guy was proof; I could tell that he doesn't pull the skin back and clean what is under like what guys are supposed to do. And that was an even bigger turn off!

    Am I really being that superficial? What's your preference in this matter, and why?

    Do you ever have any sexual experiences that helped you realize what you preferred and didn't prefer? 

Comments (220)

  • MangoWOW@xanga

    I don't think you're superficial. I generally think uncircumcised penises aren't the greatest looking thing. The only difference between you and me if that I just ignore it and do them anyways. The only thing I refuse to do is give them head because that's just way too close for my liking. I don't want something that gross in my mouth. D:

  • storiesandsinker@xanga

    Yeah, it was gross.
    I bet it even gave you cooties and all..

  • listen_to_The_Pixies@xanga

    Ok, look. The lack-of-cleaning thing I can see being horrendous to experience. But if you're seriously turned off and go so far as to reject a dude just because you think "eeeeewwie, it's extra wiggly!", perhaps you shouldn't even be having sex. I know that's harsh, but seriously, if you can't be comfortable with normal shapes and functions of the human body (and circumcision, although common, is NOT the human body in its "normal" state), you have no business being allowed to see and judge (as you obviously are) another naked.

    Like, how would you like it if a dude posted on here, "her nipples were extra puffy and I've never seen that before, it was DISGUSTING. I'll be sure to find a way to pre-screen chicks for big nips because i'm sure as hell not doing THAT again!"

  • mustardcat@xanga

    I personally like circumsized as well, but like you its because thats all i've ever known lol. I've been with one guy who was uncircumsized, it wasn't any less pleasureable, it was just unusual for me. Thank god he's my best friend, or else I probably would have bailed. He made me feel comfortable with it.


    Plus, if he wasn't cleaning himself properly, UGH! You have every right to be uncomfortable.
    There's nothing wrong with an uncircumsized penis, but when you dont clean it its WRONG. Men can get diseases and infections like that, and I dont know about anyone else but I dont want an infection being rubbed on my inner wall!

  • asdfghjkieu@xanga

    i bet you have hairy nipples.

  • FireMapleSong@xanga

    @storiesandsinker@xanga - I lol'd.

    Stop blaming the penis for the guy's failure to clean. You hooked up with some one who obviously can't take care of himself - it's not the fact that he was uncircumcised, it was the fact that he was gross and not cleaning under his foreskin that put you off. It's not the fault of his penis that he doesn't know how to clean himself.

  • pansybradshaw@xanga

    i prefer a natchural penis to wun that haz ben cut i lyke the foreskin & the tayste of a natural penis i lyke the way they handle cuz you dont needa uze so much lube espeshuly wen masturbating also the skar tishue onna cut penis iz a bit skarie not to menshun the brutality of cutting an infant penis now thatz abusive

  • atmaster@xanga

    whoa gross if he doesn't clean properly, but honestly, it's not like you have to spend an extra 20 min in the shower to clean it properly... this guy probably is dirty in general.

  • steph

    Dude, I totally am with you on that one. The one guy I hooked up with that was uncircumcised was pretty gross anyway, but like, still. Gross stuff underneath that skin.

    It may be superficial, but we're allowed to have preferences. Just like some guys prefer boob size, we prefer circumcision :P

  • mustardcat@xanga

    @listen_to_The_Pixies@xanga - Not everyone is able to accept things so easily. I agree that its not right to reject a man and say it was "disgusting" because of something so natural, but one cannot force themselves to be comfortable with something they just don't like.

    Plus, everyone is freaked out the first time they see something. Do you remember the first time you saw a penis? Did you not almost cry, because i did haha. (i was young, it was on tv.)
    I think she'll get used to it after a while if she chooses to continue with this guy, or any other uncircumsized guy.

  • zretrareo27@xanga

    Ewwww... That made me cringe and I'm not hungry anymore.

  • jeezshoua@xanga

    So what if you met a great guy and you found out that he was uncircumcised when you two were getting hot?  Are you just going to bail out because your last uncircumcised guy left you with a dirty mouth?  How are you going to tell if the guys you talk to are circumcised or not?  Are you going to be a weirdo and ask them right away if they are or not?  Just curious.

    You shouldn't judge your bad experience with a dirty uncircumcised penis to all uncircumcised penis.  That's just.. discriminating.  All penis have their rights too!

  • mustardcat@xanga

    @FireMapleSong@xanga - Yeah I agree with that as well. He dug his own cheesy grave there.

  • listen_to_The_Pixies@xanga

    @brittbritt__x@xanga - Yeah, i might have thought penises were gross at some point, but i didn't write a widely read, insulting post about it. This post will make guys who already know being uncircumcised is considered weird feel way worse, just because one immature lady decided to be rather rude about a sensitive subject.

    PLUS she indicated that she would not, in fact, continue with this guy, or any other uncircumcised guy, so she won't "get used to it".

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  • jenggai2308@xanga

    LOL! Very funny! You still did IT, right?

  • follow_home@xanga

    @listen_to_The_Pixies@xanga - completely agree. i can definately see how it would be disgusting if he didn't clean properly, but i fail to see how cut/uncut is that big of a deal. my husband isn't circumcised, and i honestly never really think about it because it's a part of the man i love and am committed to (then again he's not a dirty slob about it either, haha).


    maybe superficial judgments like this are the natural result of hooking up with guys you don't know/aren't in a relationship with?


    :)

  • The_Tudor_Rose@xanga

    The first penis I saw  was uncircumcised, and I think because of that, I'm more comfortable with uncircumcised than I am with circumcised, but I'd never write a guy off because he was one way or another.


    If a guy doesn't keep himself clean, yeah, that is his fault and that is gross.

    I guess I would say its too bad your first experience was with a guy who er... didn't maintain? I just hope that you don't fall in love with a guy come to find he is uncircumcised, and that becomes a make or break choice. It would be sad >.<
  • misslionheart@xanga

    I had to laugh at this entry. Lol.

  • anonymous

    at long as he knows how to use it...*winks*

  • mustardcat@xanga

    @listen_to_The_Pixies@xanga - Yeah, sometimes people need reassurance that they're not the only one who feels that way. I agree with you that she didn't phrase any of that properly, or in a respectful manner, and she obviously wasn't thinking of anyone else's feeling when she wrote it. I never wrote a blog about how gross I thought penis's were when I first saw one either, but thats why we're all different.
    I've never heard an uncircumsized or circumsized man say he thought it was weird. Any guy who reads this and is even slightly mature in any way, will think the same thing you are. That she's just being immature and rude.
    As for her saying she'll never touch one again, like @jeezshoua@xanga said, she's gunna ask everyone she has prospects for if they had their skin cut off? It will happen again one day, and if she has any respect for another human being she won't just run away. Thats her call though.
    All Im sayin, is that I don't beleive she should stop having sex because she knows what she likes and what she doesn't like.


    I have a feeling this blog is gunna turn into a shit-show haha. Popcorn?

  • kawasaki_saiyan@xanga

    LOL!!  I think you were with a guy who just didn't know a thing about taking care of himself and others..  But not every uncircumcised guys out there is like him.  I shower every day, sometimes even two showers , and when I shower, I normally focus in that area, inside and out, and any surrounding areas.  So just because you weren't lucky, doesn't mean all the uncircumcised guys have to suffer, actually we don't really suffered, there's plenty of fishes in the sea..  haha..

    oh yeah, let me guess, he probably didn't eat right and his cream didn't smell/taste good..  and that should definitely turn you off..  haha..

  • NOTdaGRLnextDR@xanga

    @listen_to_The_Pixies@xanga - I couldn't agree more! Excellent comment :)

  • immaairheadxl@xanga

    @kawasaki_saiyan@xanga - hahahahaahahh...don't we know it mr.jjj..


    AHH, AS LONG AS I KNOW HOW TO FUCK HIM AND HIM FUCK ME.


    SHIT. FUCK IT! =P

  • anonymous

    @listen_to_The_Pixies@xanga - I completely agree with you!

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