Wednesday, 25 March 2009
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An Easy Way to Get Phone Numbers from Women (Does It Work?)
I read this advice on Dating Support Center and wanted to see what you guys thought:Here is an easy way to get phone numbers from women:
1) Flirt with her.
2) Build rapport.
3) Flirt some more.
4) Find something in common with her.
5) Suggest doing that something "in common" together. (Important tip: Don't ask. Suggest!)
Example: "We should do rock-climbing together some time.")
6) Watch her reaction.
7) If the reaction is good, ask for her number.
The key here is to be CASUAL. Imagine she's not someone you’re attracted to…like you're just meeting a friend.
You'll be amazed at how *easy* it is to get phone numbers once you have this "casual attitude" down!
Would this work on you? What's worked for you before?
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Comments (31)
that's pretty much exactly how i do it.
I never give out my phone number so no, it wouldn't work on me.
It sounds like a pretty good way to chat up most people though.
ahahah. that's funny. its a really good way to get to know a girl, and get her number... i can say it has worked on me.lol.
Well, I don't give out my number to random people. I have to be atleast close to being friends with them before they get my number. So, for someone like me, no.
If I were more laid back about that and gave my number to people at an earlier point, them being casual would be key; so it would probably work.
Nice. It may work for me. But it all depends if I want to get to know the guy more or not.
Yeah this is a pretty good approach.
It seems pretty simple & friendly enough.
jesus.
you have to teach men this?
or you can just steal their phone....easy.
It works with me. Haha
That's a good way to go. Works on me, hahaa. =]
that is the BEST way sure... but is it more fun than going up to a girl you don't know and saying, "Hey... I lost my phone number... can I have yours?"
I think not!
you gotta enjoy the hunt, or the prize just isn't worth it!
(btw, I'm totaly joking, don't anyone get all huffy and upset)
This is pretty funny. I'll be sure to watch out for guys that try this method. Hahaha
Honestly, I don't think this would work for me: it seems a bit dull. For me, I need more spunk and outgoing like the "I'm just gonna' go for it disregarding the negatives in the end" type. But then I don't usually give out my phone number to stranger-dudes unless I know them through friends or something on the lines of it. :3
I've seen this in action. My two girlfriends and I were at a bar celebrating one of their birthdays. A guy started talking to the birthday girl, flirting, then bought all three of us drinks. She mentioned snowboarding and he offered to take her sometime. She agreed and gave him her number.
LOL.. guys use this method all the time pretending to be totally "platonic"..so when do they specify it is a date? after he leans in and she smacks him accordingly?
But I must say it works everytime. haha.
That isn't a technique. That's just how you make friends. If it doesn't "work" on you then you have some trust issues or the guy is excessively creepy.
I think all of my dates have been formed by one of us mentioning an activity and the other one saying they like doing that too and that we should do it together.
that actually just worked sunday night. except it wasn't my phone number but my email address. i was talking with a girl about how i really liked the first twilight book, and she got my email address and emailed all the others to me. after she got my email, we made out...we were really drunk, lol
When I want someone's phone number, assuming I already know them on some level, I ask them if I can see their phone (which usually doesn't come off as weird, because for some reason these people seem to have snazzier phones than I do...) and then I call my phone from theirs while they're not paying attention. My phone tends to be on Ringer Off, so they don't know I've done it.
If anything this antic amuses me, but I've never used someone's phone number without them knowing I had it in the first place, that's just weird.
This might worked if I'm also into the guy. I hate dealing with awkward moments so, it helps if he act casual avoiding being awkward and desperate while asking someone out.
I saw this in action and I laughed when the guy failed and was viewed as more of a creeper.
Build rapport? What is this pick up from "The Game" haha
@jeezshoua@xanga - agreed..
it may work, how you flirt and whether the girl is interested or not plays a big part in whether it works or not..
You want to know how to get a girl's digits, just check out a show called "The Pickup Artist" on VH1. I laughed my ass off for most of the episodes, but then again, after swallowing my pride and using what I learned, I got the girl I'm with now (and hopefully from now on). Some of the stuff on the show is cheesy, but I swear to you it works.
somebody just pulled this trick on me and apparently it worked!