Sunday, 22 March 2009
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Scandalish: Use Your Imagination
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Have you ever thought about someone other than your partner during sex? If so, whom?
To what extent do you have to use your imagination in bed?
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OMG lol.
It's not really scandalish to think of someone else during sex every now and then, it's normal. If you do that every time, it means you're not into your partner and need therapy or a new partner.
It's actually difficult for me to think of someone else other than the person I'm doing it with at the moment, but when I voluntarily imagine someone else, it often kicks the heat up a notch. But I have to come back to reality now and again or else the fantasy will mess with my focus in the moment.
Overall, I think just a dash of imagination works well, but overdo it, and it's a distraction. For me anyway.
I wouldn't dare to attempt it, because if I ever did I would probably get kneed in the crotch a couple of times for calling her somebody elses name.
hahahahahha,
no.
I never fantasize about specific people, not even my partner...but I have thought of my "random" someone else during sex. Sometimes it just makes it that much better.
I know its normal. But nah, I don't do it. I don't think I could do it if I tried XD
Im just too focused on the guy I'm doing to have fantasies.
I haven't during actual sex. Phone sex though...
I'm always too in the moment, I'd probably feel a little guilty for it though, who knows. xD
lol i think its weird if that happen no? omg!! its like cheating on their face kinda thing..
idk its just a thoughtyeah, i think about how awkward it would be if my roommates walked in
No need to log out. I never have. I never would. Why would I need to fantasize about anyone else, when my boyfriend is so damn hot?
Seeing as how very little of my partners are actually WITH me (long distance, go figure), I pretty much have to. And I don't mind the idea of using my imagination. It's pretty enticing the things you'll imagine, before you start to get actual thing.
Forget it. I don't have anything to hide. Bring on the backlash!
He once asked me if I ever have fantasies of having sex with other men, I said no, and he laughed and called me boring.
I don't really fantasize about people, and if I do they don't have faces. Other than that, not so much.
The first time I let another guy kiss me after being kissed for three years by the same one, that ex slipped into my head for a few seconds. That was, until I realized this was way better kissing than my ex ever did. The sex that followed was also better, so he never crossed my mind again. I don't really need to think about other people to get off if I'm with somebody!
I almost called a guy by the wrong name...both the names started w/ "J" thankfully and I caught myself before actually saying the name...sex w/this guy was much better thinking about someone else... **shrugs**
My whole life I have only been in love with one man. I have slept with about 6 other guys besides him. And this whole time I have thought of my love with 4 of these men. I can't help it if he is the only man I have loved. So if I wanna think of him I will. I don't feel bad about it.
guilty.
but it was super brief and i was doing it to compare haha.
i was thinking, my god my bf does it SOo much better than b.l.a.n.k. does it!
I don't really think about anyone or anything in particular, really. Is that weird?