Miss OstrichAll of my friends are doing those MySpace/Facebook "25____(truths, facts about me, etc)," so I felt like making one of my own about relationship firsts. I'm only going list ten, and out of solidarity, I'll be the first to fill it out (plus, I want to because these are fun...).
1. Where was your first kiss?
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
8. How long did your first relationship last?
9.Why did your first relationship end?
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
Fill it out!
1. Where was your first kiss?
In the hallway outside of an art room in high school.
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
We went to the movies and saw Bringin' Down the House...I don't know why. Then we went to dinner at Applebees across the street from the theater. His family ran in during dessert and watched us from another table until we were done eating. Creepy.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
I was 14 - freshman year of high school.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
He always had football practice, and I was getting upset about never seeing him. He took it as I was asking him to quit football, and he yelled at me about controlling his life. Then I got defensive since he misunderstood me, and long story short, there was yelling and tears. We got over it by the next day, though.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
He surprised me with roses at school, but then ruined it by giving me a DVD of SWAT even though he knew I don't like those kinds of movies.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet- puppy love)?
15, I think.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
He walked me to my door after a date, then started walking back to his car. I was about to open the door to my houe, when he called out, without even turning around, "I love you!" I kind of called it back, but I was too surprised and disappointed to respond correctly.
8. How long did your first relationship last?
2 years and 5 months.
9.Why did your first relationship end?
He wanted to break up because he was leaving for college and I was a senior in high school. THEN I found out he had a girlfriend on the side while we were dating. So, he was full of it, but it was for the best.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
I've always said: it's lust, not love, at first sight.
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1. At prom.
2. Dinner and movies.
3. 18
4. I don't remember. Honestly, we didn't argue much.
5. He planned a scavenger hunt and hid gifts around my house lol.
6. When I was 15, I had major feelings for a guy who was a year older than me. Turns out, he felt the same way but we didn't do anything about it cuz he felt we had different lifestyles.
7. I'm still waiting to hear it. =(
8. Almost 3 years.
9. The flame died.
10. No, it's lust. =)
1. My first kiss took place behind my best friend's house during HER birthday party. She lives in an old plantation house, so the woods behind it are amazing at night.
2. First we went out and got the best Italian food I've ever eaten, then we went downtown and spent time at all the shops. After that we walked from the downtown area to the river that runs through the middle of it and sat on the rocks, which was our first kiss.
3. I was about 16.
4. The other person not having any ambitions in life and blaming everything that went wrong on everybody else. Also, never taking initiative with situations and smoking too much weed when he could have been spending money on more important things. (Trust me, he smoked a LOT of weed.)
5. I've never had a Valentine's Day with an SO.
6. Hahaha, I was 16.
7. 14 or 15. I don't really remember.
8. About a month, but it was a great month.
9. I ended our relationship, using some bullshit excuse about how it just didn't feel right anymore or something. In reality, I was just scared.
10. Yeah, in a way. I'm not advocating that you're in legit love at first sight, but I definitely believe that you can make a connection with somebody that's a lot more than lust as a lot of people think it might be.
1. At my house, sitting on the couch & listening to music.
2. He drove to the movie theater and we saw "The Hot Chick". Afterwards, we drove around and looked at Christmas lights because it was Christmas Eve.
3. 14
4. I honestly don't remember. It might have been me needing space because he was somewhat clingy.
5. We had lunch together and that's really all I remember.
6. 15
7. When I was 15. It was with the same guy from my first date, first kiss, etc.
8. About a year & a half.
9. I kind of wanted to be single. I mean, i was only 16!
10. No way!
1. Where was your first kiss?
in a car lol
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
went to the movies, hung out at a bookstore
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
15
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
Lying
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
Hated V-day, was successful in discouraging that business
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
16
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
when i was 16
8. How long did your first realtionship last?
a month haha high school
9.Why did your first relationship end?
eh, it was a secret because my ma didn't want me to date yet, and she found out, so i freaked and broke up with him. i shouldn't have heh but we are still friends.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
nope.
I guess I'll just do this here...
1. Where was your first kiss?my couch
2. What did you do on your first ever date? never been on a real "date" per se, but i guess i went to get ice cream.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?14
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over? how we didn't talk. how i didn't call. whatever.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?never been with someone on valentine's day
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)? 14. and i'm still in love with him.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you? IN love? never. the first time someone said they loved me though, was about a week ago.
8. How long did your first realtionship last? 2 weeks :|
9.Why did your first relationship end? we didn't talk. refer back to number 4. good times.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)not really.
1. Where was your first kiss? In a field on an old abandoned hay wagon
He was the first official guy I counted as a boyfriend. We broke up after 7 months and got back together 6 months later. Now we're married.
2. What did you do on your first ever date? I hung out with guy friends alone all the time but never really considered them dates (even when they did). I always paid my own way and thus justified that it wasn't a date. The first place I went alone with my first official boyfriend, however, was out to see "school of rock" and then to a cafe for coffee afterwards.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO? 17
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over? No idea. I don't remember the first huge fight. We faught a lot early on about whether or not we should officially date again.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO? I think we went out to see a movie or something. He bought me a bag of skittles and made me a mix tape.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)? 19, I think. I had so many puppy crush loves before that but they don't really count.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you? The first official "I love you" from a boy other than in kidnergarten came shortly before we broke up during the summer of 2004. I was working at a summer camp and he'd come to visit and it was really awkward because I didn't like him that much and hadn't seen him all summer and when he got home he wrote me a long "what happened to us" letter and ended it with "I love you." He later admitted that he didn't know what love was at the time and that was just his desperate attempt to hang on to me. It didn't work because I broke it off a week later thinking he was getting way too clingy and I wasn't as serious as he was. Six months later we were back together and now we're married.
8. How long did your first realtionship last? It's still going
9.Why did your first relationship end? See #7.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question). I believe in extreme attraction at first sight. But my current husband I just vaguely thought was cute whereas any guy I was immeiately convinced I was in love with turned out to be a loser.
@laurenmaureen@xanga - I was going to put mine in here, but it was long and complicated, so I put it in a blog. lol
1. my sofa
2. we saw the game plan and went to chevys
3. 18
4. she got jealous that i had girl friends
5. never happened
6. probs 10
7. december 07
8. just under 2 months
9. um i realized i liked boys
10. gross no
How awful is this--most of these I can't answer. Not that I haven't experienced them.
I JUST CAN'T REMEMBER. D:
1. Where was your first kiss? In my bedroom - scandalous, I know.
2. What did you do on your first ever date? Watched The Lion King at his house and uh, missed half the movie
3. How old were you when you had your first SO? 18 years old (after high school)
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over? Him not having a job
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO? He drove an hour after getting off his night shift to surprise me at 2am with origami roses (made by him).
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)? 20 years old
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you? about 6 months ago
8. How long did your first relationship last? about 2 months
9.Why did your first relationship end? I moved across the country for university
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? It's impossible to love someone without knowing them, so absolutely not.
1. Where was your first kiss?
In a train
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
Walking around, eating ice cream, having dinner in france
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
15
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
I think it was about cutting
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
It was this year cause every last VD I couldt spent time with my SO. We went shopping and nice candle light dinner afterwards
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
14
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
15
8. How long did your first relationship last?
3 1/2 years
9.Why did your first relationship end?
Aske me something better - I dont know
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
no, you need time to get to know someone. you can find them attractive at first sight, but no love
1. Where was your first kiss? On a football field.
2. What did you do on your first ever date? Movies :)
3. How old were you when you had your first SO? 19.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over? Never really had a huge fight.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO? Never had someone on Vday...!
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)? 16
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you? That has yet to happen.
8. How long did your first relationship last? 2mos
9.Why did your first relationship end? He started ignoring me.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question) Nope.
Ohh, this is fun!
1. Where was your first kiss?
Um, with tongue involved? I think it was near the train station. (No offense it was so horrible that I suppressed the memory)
My first kiss with my SO right now was in my dorm room. That I will always remember. *inserts a scene from some tv drama*
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
Nothing, just walked around in the mall, small talks, walked home.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
With my SO right now? 17.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
Oh, stupid things.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
We went to watch movies, nice dinner, he brought me roses.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
Eh, if really really in love, then 17.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
Haha, 15/16.
8. How long did your first relationship last?
One month
Then the second was a year.
Then this one is going to be three years.
9.Why did your first relationship end?
"I don't have time" It was stupid. I didn't really care since I was too young anyway.
The second one was because of me.
This one lasted for two years, broke up 'cause of *insert a dramatic long story here*
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
I never did. I believe it's more like lust at first sight.
1. Where was your first kiss?
outside my door, on my side steps.
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
my first actual date, we went to see 'Stay Alive', and had dinner in the food court.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
18.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
Haven't had one yet.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
We spent the day at his house. He made me dinner, we watched a movie, and then we went and hung out with a friend of his.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
14-15ish.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
Hasn't happened yet.
8. How long did your first relationship last?
We just hit our 3 month mark on the 13th.
9.Why did your first relationship end?
I'm still in my first relationship.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
No; I believe in lust at first sight, but not love.
1. Where was your first kiss?
A dorm hall lobby
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
went to a Christian Haunted House - pretty lame...
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
18
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
probably his porn addiciton
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
we just hung out around his room, and i think we might have watched movies, I know we took pictures. :D
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
18
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
18
8. How long did your first relationship last?
well if you disclude the 2 times we broke up 3 years 3 months 14 days
9.Why did your first relationship end?
we both had matured and realized we were not right for each other
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
no thats called lust.
1. First kiss: I don't know if this really counts but kindergarten on the bus. I didn't know why I liked her tongue in my mouth so much at the time.
2. First Date: 8th grade, dinner and coney island.
3. First SO: 16
4. First Fight: I went through two SO's without any huge fights but the first fight I had was about cigarettes. Ironically and hypocriticaly it was her smoking not I.
5. 1st Valentine's Day: It was....a long time ago. Seven years to be exact. The fuck if I know.
6. The first time (19) I truly thought I was in love, I was wrong, same with the second (20), and the third (22)...wrong. Good thing this isn't baseball.
7. First time some one told me they love me: 19
8. First Relationship length: 3 months
9. Why did the first relationship end: I was too honest. We will leave it at that.
10. Believe in love at first sight: I thought I did, enter third ex, but I was wrong. I don't know, maybe.
1. First kiss was with a guy who was LITERALLY kissing me behind his gf's back. They were fighting and felt the need to bring drama onto my life. *rolls eyes at 15 year olds
2. Dinner and movie with my first boyfriend (or at least first boyfriend who I wanted to be serious with)
3. Had flings in HS whom I considered bfs back then but first REAL SO would be freshman at college. He was a dreamy romantic too!
4. Fought with my first love (2nd boyfriend, forgot what it was about.
5. Romantic candlelit dinner and walk by financial district where he decided to kiss me Titanic style. LOL
6. 18
7. 18
8. 4.5 months lol. He didn't want me to wait because he would be away in the Marines for most of the year and didn't know when he would be able to come back to NYC ever.
9. Read above.
10. Lust at first sight. It's luck if you two end up together and end up dating a long time.
1. Where was your first kiss? In game room at my friend's house
2. What did you do on your first ever date? We went to a pond and made ourselves a picnic
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?15
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?Commitment
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?My 4th boyfriend, we were in a doctor's office. I was really sick.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?15-16
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?When i was 15/16.
8. How long did your first relationship last? a year and a half
9.Why did your first relationship end? there was another girl
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)kinda
1. In a preschool classroom. But haha my first real kiss that meant something...hm. Outside a science classroom in my middle school.
2. I don't remember at all. I can remember a bunch of early dates I went on but I can't remember which came first.
3. 13
4. When I was 15 my boyfriend was playing strip poker and being really flirty at a party..it made me so mad I went outside and cried, since I couldn't drive yet, and I called my dad and told him I wasn't feeling well so he came to pick me up, haha. Then we fought about it later that night via Internet.
5. I've been in relationships during valentines day multiple times but I don't think I ever did anything for them, or if I did then I just don't remember.
6. 14 (puppy love) 15 (real love)
7. 13
8. Like 2 months. But that was kind of a weird little thing. If we're talking about real relationships that really mean something, then 2 years.
9. Don't remember about my first ever one. My first ever real one though ended because we got bored
10. Nah.
1. First kiss? Under the stars in a huge empty field. April 16th 2004.
2. What did you do on your first ever date? Watched Dumb and Dumber at my parents house while my dad stared down my date from the other room.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO? 16
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over? Smoking weed.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO? Don't really remember.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)? 16
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you? 2 months into my first relationship
8. How long did your first relationship last? 3.5 years!
9.Why did your first relationship end? We grew up and over each other.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes, actually. That's my claim for my current love. Our eyes met, and the love began.
1. Where was your first kiss?
In my highschool cafeteria at the end of a dance.
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
I actually have yet to go on my first official solo date.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
Thirteen.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
I have no idea.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
I don't celebrate Valentine's Day.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
16.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
When I was thirteen.
8. How long did your first relationship last?
A couple months
9.Why did your first relationship end?
He had a crush on this girl he promised he'd never date. I "supposedly dated" his best friend when he got his tonsils removed and my supposed "best friend" at the time wanted to get with him. I was dumped.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
No. That's lust.
my ex?
1. Where was your first kiss? In the laundry room. It was hot.
2. What did you do on your first ever date? When was this..? lol..
3. How old were you when you had your first SO? friends at 11, lovers at 13? lol.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over? 2nd year incoming.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO? don't really remember.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)? that summer.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you? him. but following that and while in that relationshp. maybe 10 after.
8. How long did your first relationship last? 3 years.
9.Why did your first relationship end? i had to move states.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
i believe attraction at first sight.
Only cause I'm a little bored.
1. Where was your first kiss?
The first lip to lip kiss was in the backseat of the car her mom was driving.
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
We went to Six Flags for my ex's birthday. I offered to take her out then.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
I was 14.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
Truthfully, it's over my ex's dumb moodswings over generally nothing.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
Well, I gave her a card. Truthfully, I can't remember my first Valentine's Day with an SO.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
I was 13 and in love with this church-going girl. Shewas pretty, nice and her personality was just wonderful.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
It was on a soccer field. This girl WAS pretty, but I didn't want a girlfriend. Truthfully, I thought her coming up and expressing that was creepy.
8. How long did your first relationship last?
A month exactly.
9.Why did your first relationship end?
Because we rushed in it too fast. She asked me to be her boyfriend on the very day she met me. RED FLAG!
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
No, I don't. Let me get to know you, then we'll talk.
Well, that was easy.
I'll give this a whirl.
1. Where was your first kiss?
- On a school bus, on the way home from a football game.
2. What did you do on your first ever date?
- We played a game of one on one basketball, ate some pizza, played video games, and watched a football game.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO?
- 17.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over?
- Trying to figure out what we were going to do when college came around.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO?
- We were stuck in school until the snow storm calmed down so we spent it there. Uh, there were chocolates and bears and cards, etc.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)?
- 17.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you?
- It was right after midterms were over and we were sitting on a staircase in the school. I was seventeen at the time.
8. How long did your first relationship last?
- Two years.
9.Why did your first relationship end?
- A combination of things: his parents, my parents, and the fact that we were at two different points in our lives.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question)
-Nah, b.
1. Where was your first kiss? my first "real" kiss (as in, i wasn't being forced), was in front of my school.
2. What did you do on your first ever date? i don't think i've ever been on a real "date", hahaha.
3. How old were you when you had your first SO? thirteen or fourteen, i do believe.
4. What was your first huge fight in a relationship over? hm. it was something stupid, i'm sure. i just don't remember.
5. What did you do on your first Valentine's Day with an SO? i've only had a boyfriend like, in my school last valentine's day. we exchanged cards and.. that's it. oh, and he took me to the dance.
6. How old were you when you first thought you were in love (if not yet - puppy love)? fourteen.
7. When was the first time someone said they were in love with you? last year, i think, in december. maybe. but he was lying.
8. How long did your first realtionship last? almost 2 months.
9.Why did your first relationship end? we didn't talk, things got complicated, ect.
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? (not exactly a first, but still a valid question) lust, not love.