Here are the three golden rules a guy must follow in order make this relationship a success with the lady.
1) Love her wholeheartedly. And not just with the penis. You're going have to deal with the whole package: mind, body and soul, emotions and all too. Keeping that love meter high also requires work and thought in keeping things fresh, and she will notice when your actions reflect the love you have for her.
2) Listen, understand, respect. Communication is key. You're going to have to listen to what she says. Easy. The tricky part is interpreting what she told you to your own understanding and experience and talk to her explaining how you feel about what was said. The simple "I understand" and "I agree" can only get you so far. Also, it has to be said in a way where you're respecting where she is coming from in the event she may be in the wrong. However, for the most part, she is right.
3) Don't make her angry. If you failed in the previous two rules, then you have probably made her angry. Her "I'm angry at you" mode may be worse than her PMS monster mode. Definitely scary. When this rule is broken, you're going to have to work your way in reestablishing that you've met all three rules to her.
If all rules are kept in check, then everything else should be cake, for the most part. And look forward to happy days ahead of you! Take it from me, I'm very happy...every day I wake up next to her, I say to myself, "Man, I love being in love with her."
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Comments (34)
Pretty accurate to me :)
I try and follow them as much as I can, which is why my fiancee is so happy with me... I think. XP
This is good.
True for both sexes.
thumbs up!
what kind of bs is this?
this is so true gonna forward it to my friends lol
short and sweet :)
at least it's man readable too !
awesome
nicely written, and very true! =]
i'm definitely a bitch when i'm in that "i'm angry at you" mode. hahahaha
Short, simple, and accurate.
Short and sweet. I wish all guys would follow those rules.
Love the last one the most... :)
aww, why cant more boys be like you :(
word.
Simply put, but pretty much right on.
LOL love it.
"Don't make her angry" LOL
To anyone worried about her getting angry: Grow a pair.
=)
good list. definitely true.
all guys should take note of this...hehe :P
Smart man.
Good, short and to the point. Sadly, this is common knowledge, nothing really new. Honestly, if you don't know not to piss off a woman during her "red river rampages", then you don't deserve a woman at all.
@dR34M_w_Im4g1nAti0n@xanga - Exactly.
Women will find a reason to get angry at you, it is inevitable. You cannot be a person, less known a man, if you can somehow satisfy to where she is never angry.
I'm not being antagonistic towards women, but relationships involve all emotions, not just happy moments.
Err what kind of BS is this?
aw i like your last sentence! So cute <3
I'm going to agree with Tigerdauphin, this is BS. If a guy is truly in love with a girl, he isn't going to need rules to make the relationship work. Love isn't a feeling. It IS and action. and if any guys need rules to follow in order to love someone then it isn't love.
He isn't going to say to himself, i need to not make her angry, i need to communicate today. Those should be instinctual. unconscience activities that come from the heart not the brain.