Tuesday, 17 March 2009
A few weeks ago, I started hanging out with someone I work with. I really want to date him, and he's kind of even asked to date me kind...but he's still incredibly hung up on his ex. She cheated on him and is now apparently pregnant with someone else's kid. I think it might be his, but he claims he took a DNA test and he's not the father.
It was a serious relationship, too. In fact, when I first met him which was back in February, they were still dating. Flash forward to a few months from now...after he found out she had cheated on him, they broke up and he now wants to try and date me.
I don't want to be a rebound, but I don't think he will ever get over her. But then again, he's not going to take her back after she cheated on him multiple times.
He's the first guy I've ever met who's treated me more decently than all the other men I've met. Most men I've met lately just want a piece of me and don't really want to get to know me. He seems like he wants to get to know me and be my friend, too.
I want to date him, but I don't like how he's still not over his ex...even though they are broken up, he still puts her first name and his last name together...yet he wants to try to date me at the same time.
Would you give someone a chance who does this? And if you've been in this situation before, what did you do?