Wednesday, 11 March 2009
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Getting Busy: Being Under The Covers Is Overrated
Beds are an extremely comfortable and awesome place to have sex, no doubt about that. They're not only soft (usually), but also bouncy (usually) - which provides amazing leverage for a particularly powerful romp.However, beds do have one minor problem - they're usually covered with sheets, blankets, pillows, stuffed animals, whatever. And more often than not, I've found that the general populace (e.g. the five friends with which I regularly discuss sexual activities) assumes that a bed frolic = an undercover frolic.
That's so not my thing! (Especially because it has led to major problems.)
Preparations for bed sex, for me, more often than not involve shoving all possible covering materials onto the nearest floor. Why?
Because I love being able to see every inch of the body I'm feeling so close to me, and I love being able to show off every inch of mine. I love seeing my boy's smooth skin, his rippling muscles, and, of course, his hardness moving slickly inside me...I love seeing my boy's weird-shaped birthmark, his protruding white chest scars, and, of course - his hairy bum up in the air (or to the side, or under me... you know).
I love seeing every inch of his perfection. I love seeing every inch of his flaws.
It's wonderful not having to hide either, not having to be secretive or shameful of my own body... It's wonderful not to be "undercover".
So.
I think now I think I'm going to challenge YOU, dear reader. Next time you have sex, I challenge you to move all covers aside. I challenge you to see your partner's whole body and to show off yours as well.
However perfect. However flawed.
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Comments (45)
Okay.
We can take it to the showeres.
Living room. Dining room table.
Kitchen counter top.
back to the living room. and the bed.
and then the showers.
and then back to the bed
on the floor
and knock the fuck out.
Anyways, HAHAHHAHAAHHAHAHAHAH. no comment.
Covers, pillows, etc just get in the way.
Your challenge done, dear. My hubby and I always "do the deed" out in the open. Just because we both get sweaty during the deed. I love to see every inch of him also - even though he gained almost 30 pounds. Everything about him is beautiful.
And Mirrors... Lots and lots of mirrors. So i can watch the rump hump!
Windows should also be left wide open so everyone can see the magnificent act! =P
i've got a thing for mirrors myself. anywhere's good really. except maybe public. tends to pose a bit of a problem for the kiddies.
Covers aren't necessary at all. All they're good for is a really sweet gesture at the end of one person or the other covering both participants (or more, whatever floats ones boat) up.
Or, if it's cold of course.
Always out in the open
Theres usually a candle or two across the room (the distance is a safety precaution) so there are shadows cast on the wall. I prefer the shadows over the mirrors because it leaves alot more to the imagination. 
we always move things aside too. I don't think I've ever had sex under the covers.
Sex is overrated.
I find this entry kind of... weird. I didn't think that people actually had sex under the covers. I thought it was something that you see on tv or in the movies due to censorship and whatnot; you would see that they're under the covers and there's lots of movement and giggling and it implies that people are getting busy.
That's not to say that people who have sex under the covers don't exist, but I figured most people didn't since it doesn't seem very practical as it gets hot under there. The "challenge" doesn't seem to apply to a lot of people.
i think im more covered when im having sex else where. in bed blankets, pillows, clothes, toys, phones, remote controls are all on the floor! and its the only place i can be completely naked! :p
Haha, already without bed sheets, sometimes with the window open (but the room is on the top floor in a "quiet" neighborhood). Pillows sometimes for grip or well, head rest. And blankets when it's cold or when the heater's not running on high. :3
I don't know a single person who does it with the covers on!! If nothing else, that's just way too hot!! I prefer to not be entirely drenched in sweat by the time I'm done.
No covers is a must. How anyone does it with covers is beyond me.
@Neurotically_Mine@xanga - Oh really now? And why is that?
The only time to be under the the covers is if there is other people in the room and your intent is for them to not find out.
I've never had sex under covers.
It doesn't seem like much fun!
I never have sex under the covers. It would be way too hot.
I think you're preaching to the choir.Â
@dR34M_w_Im4g1nAti0n@xanga - bleh. it can be boring sometimes.
I have had sex under a blanket... We were in a friend's living room and people were coming in and out... They definitely knew what we were doing, but we didn't want them to see anything. It was very, very hot under there.
It gets hard to breathe under the blankets and they just get in the way.
I'd feel too naked lol, but can't say actually, I don't have sex
@jeezshoua@xanga - awww that's so sweet
Good for you (and your hubby)
To prepare for sex, we start kissing and somehow the blankets just fall away. I've never had to prepare the bed for sex or anything.