Saturday, 07 March 2009
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"It's Not Cheating - It's For Science!"
Miss Ostrich
Last night at dinner, one of the guys in my group of friends (let's call him Craig) bragged to us about how he made $200 in an hour for doing absolutely no work at all. He wouldn't cough up the details at first, so none of us believed him, but after a good deal of prodding, he spilled."My roommate knows this guy who's studying how to rehabilitate handicapped people, and he needs to practice moving their limbs and massaging them. So, I let him use me as his test dummy."
The only catch was, to get the $200, Craig had to let the student give him a..."happy ending".
At first, we thought he was kidding, but after he didn't join in laughing with us, we knew he was serious. My first question was, "How does Mary (his girlfriend) feel about you doing that?"
He shrugged and said she doesn't need to know. "She doesn't control what I do with my body. The guy told me if I did it a few more times, he'll give me $1000. I'd be an idiot to turn that down."
The boys at the table agreed, but the other girl and I were horrified. We argued that by lying to his girlfriend about these "sessions," he's cheating on her. The boys said we aren't being open-minded enough, and he's not cheating because it's being done by a med student.
"Strictly business," they said. I call that prostitution!
Do you agree that he's cheating? What would you do if you found out your significant other was doing this kind of thing behind your back?
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That's a slippery slope, but if he doesn't think it's cheating then he shouldn't have a problem telling Mary about it. If he got a "happy ending" then there's something sexual going on and in my opinion that's cheating unless his girlfriend is okay with it. Would he be okay with her doing the same thing he is?
I have to say this sounds a little fishy.
what...? is the "happy ending" part of what the massage dude actually needs to do to his patients, or does he just do that for his own kicks?
I think the answer to that partially determines the answer to your question. while I wouldn't call it prostitution, I would say that this is definitely not something that is "okay" to keep from your girlfriend.
And him being a med student makes no difference; I doubt he'd be okay with his girlfriend hooking up with a doctor just because of the phD at the end of his name.
(also, I'm assuming here happy ending means hand job? please clarify if this isn't the case...)
@ScarletMoth@xanga - A happy ending is a hand job.
Sure he can do what he wants but I personally would not want to date a real live man whore. What a douche bag.
If he won't tell her about it, it's cheating.
Cheating!
@misswonderj@xanga - well yeah, i can't say i would want to date one either.
Has he ever admitted to being bisexual? Because if he hasn't, I think he's double lying. Not only is he lying by omission by not telling her about this, but he's letting a guy give him a handjob? I don't know if any straight guy would let that slide, regardless of price. I mean, it's fine if he's into that, but seriously NOT while you're dating someone.
Whether "it's for science" or not, if he thinks it's so okay, then he should just tell her and feel guilt-free about it, right?
whatever. So the med student is giving blowjobs as a part of his/her intern?! Whatever......thats bs. There is no such thing. The med student is rehabilitating handicaps by giving them head? Im so confused.
She doesnt control his body? He's right, she doesnt. But she does control that Dick. That is the one body part she has Rights to decided where it goes as long as she's the S.O.
he's cheating especially bc he's not telling her.
I dont understand....you said the med student is a guy....giving another guy a hand job? Am I the only who also thinks that doesn't make any sense? especially if he is not gay...? i am so confused...
where do I sign up?
yeah, the happy ending part is weird, but then again, even handicapped people need love.
maybe he won't tell her because he's ashamed of a guy going down on him (if it was a male med student)
@oOBuBBLes711Oo@xanga - A happy ending isn't a blow job o_o
Are you effing kidding me? I want to know the "science" behind it.
Wow. If it's no big deal, why doesn't he tell his girlfriend? "No need to know," my ass.
umm... how is this guy reaching the end of his "happy ending" if another guy is massaging his... you know... i understand how it would feel good, but if i were a guy, even right now, it grosses me out to just think about it.
ewwh.
What is a "happy ending"? How is that research related?.. I'm so confused.
Lol, for science or not, he needs to talk to his girlfriend about it. I don't imagine he'd be OK with it if his girlfriend was doing it "for science!"...heh.
For science? Please. Lordy knows what else he's doing for money. His girlfriend needs to be told so she can make an informed decision about her future in that relationship, and so she can book an appt with her doctor to get herself checked.
women and mens mind just work totally different.
if you dont call that cheating, what is it then.
This guy pays no respect or ever considered his gfs feelings.
If it's not cheating, and it's perfectly fine to do what he's doing, then why does he not want to tell her about it? That kind of proves that even he realizes that what he's doing will upset her.
I think that could easily be considered cheating, yeah. I think that pretty much IS cheating. He's just doing it for money. When a woman is broke, and her family needs to pay bills, and she goes and prostitutes herself -- the man always considers that cheating. If it was vice versa, it would be considered cheating. What he's doing is, in fact, cheating. He's just doing it for the money.
Reverse prostitution. In this case the prostitute is the one who's supposed to end up happy at the end.
I think it's pretty crappy that he's playing it off like it is absolutely normal and not bad in the least. You should have asked him how he would feel if his girlfriend was out doing the exact same thing.
that's like... backwards prostitution? lol.
i think he should be honest with his girlfriend. but on the same side, she shouldn't be jealous... it was for medicine and that's a whole lot of money.
maybe him and the guys are jerking you around...
cheating. really weird cheating. That I'm confident his girlfriend would find gross.
@misswonderj@xanga - .........A happy ending consists of the customer ejaculating by the means of a blowjob, handjob, tittyjob, or plain ol fucking.
Very odd indeed.
I think talking to his girlfriend about the massage is secondary - talking to her about his sexual orientation seems like a much bigger deal.
Why a girl would be jealous over another guy giving her boyfriend a handjob is beyond me, unless the guy were gay or bi, which in this case is very likely.
If he didn't tell her and their relationship progressed to marriage, I think the odds are she'd be much more horified to find out after the wedding that he was bi or gay than that he'd just had a few handjob's from a twisted med-student.