Some of my friends' boyfriends said that the first time they had sex, it hurt and they bled, too! I'm glad at least we're even now and the female won't be the only one going "owwww" at the end.
I researched and found out that there was no reason why a guy would bleed at all unless he was uncircumsized, his foreskin wasn't fully detached and sex somehow had pulled it loose. Technically, only girls are virgins since they have the hymen. Guys essentially have sex the first time they masturbate, and there is no way to determine if a guy has ever masturbated or had sexual intercourse other than that knowing
grin a guy has when you talk about either one.
So, two things: one, is my guy going to be hurt the first time if he's uncircumsized? Two, has anyone been with both a circumsized and uncirc guy? Which do you prefer?
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I have been with both types of males and I really have no preference. But being with a uncircumsized guy is like getting to open a present every time! Haha.
I would prefer uncircumsized.
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theoretically, the guy with the foreskin is supposed to be more pleasurable for the chick. but i'd imagine with a condom maybe it levels the playing field a little bit.
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My boyfriend had bloody semen once after a hand job. It only happened once (and it wasn't his first), and neither of us know why. He's circumcised, by the way.
I don't know, that's just my two cents.
I hate foreskin alot of guys cant keep it clean...plus when you are ehem going down on them it tends to be alittle gross.
@chickadee09 - LOL
i prefer circumsized.
i've been with someone that was uncircumsized and he didn't tell me, and i freaked out. that is beyond gross for me. and to top it off he was crooked too!
That's odd...never heard of that before.
I know what it's like to be with both... my ex was circumcised, my current boyfriend isn't. I prefer uncircumcised honestly. Idk why.
@reminisce - Crooked! YUCK!
@reminisce - My ex was crooked and circumcised...it was really weird.
@reminisce - Hahaha Was his name Alex by the way? =P I've had the same experience. I still can't eat anything that's crooked.
It shouldn't hurt a guy if he's uncircumcised --- the part of the foreskin that is removed has a TON of nerve-endings, thousands of them...it should, if anything, feel better than a guy who is circumcised. I dunno though...I'm not a guy and my husband is circumcised so I'm not sure how that would work!
Can't guys get raw from masturbating too much though? Maybe he went a little overboard anticipating sex and then it happened and it hurt?
@emilyd_foster@xanga - glad i'm not the only one lol.
@XxFireXboltxX@xanga - Uh...yes. It can get "raw". Wow, why didn't I think of this word when I was talking to my girlfriend about it? -__-
My current boyfriend is uncircumcised and I love it. We have a great sex life and I don't think guys who are circumcised have anything on him. I've dated both and if anything, it feels better to be with an uncircumcised guy :)
There is something probably wrong with a guy that is bleeding and hurting after sex, regardless if it's the first time or the 182 millionth time.
Normally, a situation like that would only occur if there's major friction going on, either from a lack of lubrication (be it natural or bottled) or because there was some sort of fabric constantly rubbing against the shaft (such as pulling a pair of underpants over to the side without fully removing them). If it happens again, and there's plenty of lubricant (it might be a good idea to tell the couple to invest in a bottle or KY or the like) and all articles of clothing have been removed, I'd go to a doctor, honestly. Something in that situation is not right.
As for circ vs uncirc, I've only been with circumcised men. I've seen uncircumcised penises however, and I have to say that I much prefer the look of an circumcised penis. Uncircumcised ones remind me of pigs-in-a-blanket (the appetizers that are little hotdogs wrapped in a biscuit).
Also, for any of you women out there who think that curved penises are gross, that's pretty shallow. Penises come in all styles (curved, straight, bent, thick, thin, etc) and sizes, but if you really care about a man, it's not going to matter how his penis looks as long as it's able to satisfy you sexually. Grow up. It's not like every vagina and vulva look the same, but do you hear men complaining that they prefer one look to another? No.
Anyways, Martha Roper said it best..."Some penises go up, some go down, some go to the left, and some go to the right...but they all work just fine." 7th grade health videos FTW!
Ive been with both. at first i preferred circumcised but now i just dont care.
as long as they are clean then anything goes tbh.
Is it just me, or do uncuts have more stamina? I've been with both, but my uncut current seems to have a lot more stamina than my cut ex.... I mean I know it can be a personal thing, but I seem to be hearing this theory around the board.
@AnonymousBlonde@xanga - that is so right!
i'm with an uncircumsized man! all you who think it's gross, you're wrong. the penis is thicker, it's more enjoyable for you and your boyfriend. but about cleaning, maybe you're right. my boyfriend keeps his foreskin very clean, so i've never had a hygeine issue.
I don't usually comment on these, but today I had something to say, haaa.
My ex boyfriend and I used to ride horses, and once his lost control, and he somehow got tangled on the reigns and hit himself somewhere...down there. It hurt for a bit, but he was completely over it after an hour.
Later that day, we were fooling around, and when we were going for a happy ending, I noticed something was wrong cause he was wincing. He said it really hurt him, and when he went check, there was blood in his semen.
I dunno, it only happened once, after that we didn't do anything for the rest of the day and he was fine and it never happened again. Maybe it's not the sex but something previous? Or just nerves?
ive had both &Â both ar funÂ
depending of corse on the guy
Didn't know guys bled...O_O
hi
@AnonymousBlonde@xanga - Excellent comment.