I had this same exact problem on Christmas.

But turns out, I had nothing to worry about.  My bf's family, and I mean his whole family including his 8 aunts and uncles and grandma and grandpa and his immediate family, were all very sweet. 

I'm sure his family will ask questions so just answer them and just be yourself.  My boyfriend was the one that was a bit clingy while I was at his family's Christmas party, hehe.  But I had a really good time and I think you will too.  If you have any questions, feel free to ask them.  I'm sure they're just as excited to meet you as you are meeting them.

I gave the handshake and then my bf's mom gave me a hug.  Just go with the flow.

It's like meeting new friends.

I know you think it'll be awkward and you're freaking out, but really, it's an amazing feeling.  You'll have a good time meeting everyone and getting to know them.

Anyway, goodluck.   :)

hey buddy....dnt knw u wel....bt jus a small piece ov advice...be urself....dnt pretend....be honest wit urself....n taking tht hanshake or hug thind...do wateva ur comfortable wit...bt i wud hv preferred a hand shake cuz its ur 1st meet n u dnt knw 'em very well.... :D so b confident n giv it ur best shot...ol d best...!!! 

what a freakin weird picture they chose for this.

Awww, meeting the parents. I loved meeting my boyfriend's parents, because I had heard so many good things about them through him. I met his parents the day of my Senior Prom, and it was cute! I was really nervous, and couldn't stop smiling (because I was nervous), but they were really sweet and greeted me with a hug.

The best advice I can give is for you to wear something nice, but not revealing. For example, a semi-dressy top (without cleavage), and jeans. That should go over well. And show proper ettiquette when meeting them of course. Go for a handshake, unless they initiate a hug. Don't cling to your bf the whole time, you want to show that you're not obsessed..so just let him take the lead. If you're at his house, let him decide if he wants to take your hand, and etc. But no kissing! Duh, I'm sure you knew that. Most of all, just relax and be yourself!

Best of luck! =)

I'd say wear something nice, but that still reflects your style.  If you work in an office, pick a shirt you would usually pair with slacks and wear it with jeans.  If it's chilly out, a cute sweater and jeans would be my choice (but that's my style) because it shows you're putting in enough effort to look nice, but you won't feel overdressed if everyone else is in jeans and a t-shirt.
I didn't really have this problem becauseI had already met my boyfriend's family once before we started dating, and (I hate to say it) but his girlfriend before me wore so many slutty tops that I was practically a princess for wearing something where my bra didn't show!

Just be yourself. Act like you meeting just some other person. No one wants to make a fool of themselves in front of anyone, right? It doesn't apply to just SO's families.

Of course, I've never been brought home to a guy's family like that...so who knows? I might have been nervous, too. But it's best just to relax.

I always get nervous about meeting parents too, even though it's never ended up being a problem for me.  I just try to treat them like any other new person.  Let them lead the conversation until I know a little about them and then pick up on the things I know.  

runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. =P

but seriously.....

wear nothing too revealing or too tight. maybe casual to very nice, just to show them you put in some extra effort.

greet with a shake, then a hug, if you feel they will be receptive to it/if you feel comfortable. thank them for welcoming you into their home. maybe bring a gift of something homemade (bread, cookies, dessert) or some nice flowers/chocolates/ wine/beverage for the parents.

try to be warm, respectful, friendly. try not to be overly affectionate with him (being too clingy/running your fingers through his hair/touching his knee/grabbing his posterior/french kissing, etc.) in front of his family; might make him/them feel uncomfortable. 

try not to share anything about him which might embarrass him or put him in a negative light. always show respect for him.  try not to over-share intimate things between the two of you.

maybe make up some light-hearted questions you can ask them in case there are lulls in conversation (ask him for tips). like say, if the father or mother is into a special hobby, you might want to ask more about that. ask them how they met; stuff like that. also, maybe ask to see the family photo album...or to see their yard or something which you know they take pride in. most mothers LOVE to spend time looking through scrapbooks/albums with guests. it will show them that you want to know more about the family. you may also compliment them on the meal and ask for tips on how to make it like they do, etc.

try to stay away from hot topics, such as politics and religion; things which may start an argument.  i don't think you need to potentially turn people off the very first time you meet them.

other than that, be yourself, and bear in mind that they are probably just as nervous as you are. try to be understanding, positive, a good listener, affirming, gracious and thankful.

Hahaha, the first time I met my boyfriend's parents was through Yahoo Video Chat. :) Yep. That's coz he lives in the US and I in the Philippines... This happened Christmas last ear.

It was quite stressful for me too because he told me that his parents are skeptical with meeting someone over the internet let alone dating that person.

The best thing to do is ask your boyfriend what to wear, what to do, and how to act. He should know what would be okay with his parents.

Good luck, my friend. :)

don’t worry! Just be sure that you help out with dinner or whatever it is that you are doing. First impression comes a long way!

@Dreaming_Faith@xanga - Couldn't have said it better myself! I completely agree.