Tuesday, 27 January 2009
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Bigger Guys Are Better
There's something about bigger guys that I like. I like a guy with some weight.I noticed this trend with myself . . . the guys I've been most attracted to sexually, physically and even emotionally have been bigger (over 200 but under 300). My last BF was 270 or so (he has since lost weight) and from the moment I saw him, I wanted him bad!
I think they are very cuddly, warm and usually great people! Everyone is so wrapped up in having the "perfect, slim, built" body, but that really isn't my thing. I've been told that it's nice of me to date bigger guys, but I don't see it that way. It's nice of them to date me :) I like being the tiny girl with a big guy to keep me safe and make me feel special! I occasionally find myself checking out bigger guys on the subway, streetcar, wherever I see them! There's something about them that I think is very sexy.
I know I can't be the only girl, so does anyone else like bigger guys/girls?
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While I appreciate men of all types, bigger ones can definitely be nice to have around. My current boyfriend is a big guy and I love it about him =)
It's just you.
Just kidding.
What's up with the naked chick in the post though?
I always was that way and my recent ex ended up being 5 '6, I had to deal with short man syndrom. BAD. Give me my big cuddly men!
If they're not too taller than me, I actually do like for them to have some meat on them. They have to be big in some way, by height or weight.
I'm not much of a fan of very skinny guys.
i love them too!
I'm actually quite the opposite. For me, they don't have to be built or whatever, but from my trend lately my guys have been scrawny or skinny, lol, not exactly built, though. I don't necessarily look for scrawny guys on the spot, they just happen to be that way, haha.
My current boyfriend is a big guy and I love him to death. I don't prefer huge guys but he's a big sweetheart. I'm sure we can find sweethearts in all types and sizes. I'm also sure we can find jerks in all types and sizes.
I prefer a guy who's bigger and taller than I am. However, I don't want him to run into health problems in the future because of his weight.
Weight and build isn't as much of an issue to me. I just want my mates to be fit and healthy. I find people who are active and enjoy exercising to be sexy.
I love taller men. All the guys I have ever been attracted to have been way taller than me. There is something about height that I like. Maybe, tall men just make me feel safe or something. I dont know. As for big men...not so much my thing. I like men that have relatively healthy body weight. In other words, I don't want the guy with the crazy six pack but I don't want the obese guy either...just somewhere in-between.
ME! ME! ME! PICK ME
I like tall guys and skinny. Im not a fan of the big muscular guys, i dont mind a guy being toned but guys who are i guess "macho" looking arent for me.
My husband is a bigger guy. Not too tall, but he is 'chunky' I guess you could say (5'9 and 220). I love it, I call him my teddy bear. I like being the tiny girl (5'2 and 110) wrapped in his arms! :)
my fiance can't gain weight for the life of him. he looks about half of me. awesome.
If you want to feel safe, here is a word from Tyler Durden for skinny guys:
"Big guy, big reach. Skinny guys fight 'til they're burger."
Just saying.
We all have our preferences.
Definitely. The only two guys I've ever loved fit into that category, and both was/is a lot bigger than me. (I'm 5' and one was about 6'1 and my current about 6')
I'm attracted to a lot of different types of people, but I think these are the guys I want to actually have relationships with.
So I think it's synonomous with how a guy would have sex with the blonde ditzy overly tanned girl, but he'll love the girl with an understated demeaner and no makeup who doesn't live to get attention.
@MrsCharlieBrown@xanga - haha I do that too.
All of my long-term relationships have been with guys who were much taller than I am and who were super-skinny. I'm talking, like, Jack Skellington here. I'm 5'0" and my two longest relationships were with a guy who was 6'4" and a guy who was 6'0". I like 'em tall! But I have dated bigger guys too. That's like my second favorite. As Cher from Clueless says, "Ew, I hate muscles!" I don't like a "built" guy. If he's toned, that's fine, but mostly... I like em either a little scrawny or a little squishy lol. ;]
My husband is big, he's 6'4" and weighs about 235. His shoulders are enormous and his arms are like the size of my thighs. i love cuddling up next to him and feeling protected and comfortable.
He is "built" but he's not so muscle-y that it's obvious. Which is perfect!
Oh, I def like bigger guys. Taller than me (not too hard to achieve) and in excess of 200, but not 300, pounds (like you). B/c I am not a small girl--I've got those curves--and b/c I wanna feel safe and smaller next to my man, I love the bigger guys... My roomy is opposite of me...she goes for the tall, skinny/scrawny guys...it's a rare moment when we're both like, "he's hot." Lol!!
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I'm the opposite; I love guys who are skinny, but still kind of squishy. I'm not that into muscle. I do like really tall guys, though. I'm 5'2, and I've noticed that I'm only really attracted to guys who are around 6'0, with a minimum around 5'10. In other words, I'm the girl who goes for the awkward guys.
Height doesn't really matter to me, as long as my guy's at least my height. Big in weight, though, isn't necessarily my thing, but I wouldn't not date someone because they were big. My only concern with dating someone who is bigger is that I used to be a bigger girl myself, and now that I'm thinner, it helps to have thinner people around me so that I don't go back to my old habits, so if I did date someone who was bigger, I would have to be extra conscious not to slip and let myself go back to my old weight. That probably sounds terrible, but it is a legitimate concern for me. Other than that, though, I really just like guys who are motivated and take care of themselves, and I am a big fan of muscles. These are probably the reasons why I ended up with a military man, haha! I'm a sucker for a well built man, and my man definitely is! I agree with some of the other comments, it really does make me feel safe to be with him and know he kick anyone's ass who messed with me, ha! I also like the tough exterior and sweet personality . . . the combination just makes me melt!!!!!
while i am attracted to women of all sizes...i seem to go for the shorter than me (i'm 6' 230 but need to loose a lot of that) and smaller in size, but i have nothing against those that have a little more meat on the bone. some may call them "thick". it is the person and not so much as the body type. has anyone noticed that on some tv shows, the men seem to be big and the women smaller?
my girlfriend likes bigger guys too and i'll tell you what, i'm bigger. haha. i'm probably around 270 now at 6 feet tall, i'm really overweight but we just don't have enough time to go to the gym. we meaning me and my girlfriend. i want to get down to about 200 or 220, or at least below 250! haha.
I don't know if I'm really one that goes for bigger guys...although looking back, most of them seemed to be a lil big but not like huge.
I do have to admit it makes me uncomfortable if the guy is smaller than I am. I do like some meat on the guy. Makes him comfy! lol
I like tall guys, but not skinny. I like a little bit of chubb, but not 'fat' - not that i haven't found an overweight person attractive in the past, i have dated one, but i do prefer just a little bit chubby :)
My bf is 'perfect' (for me!), 6'1, manly arms and legs and a little bit of tub of the belly.