Saturday, 10 January 2009
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Hot And Not-So-Hot Clichés of Men
This is a guest blog submitted by RighteousThang.
I've decided to make my own hot or not list about the cliché things men can do or think. I know some of them may not seem cliché, but most are.
If you must fall into one, make it a hot one:
1. Guys on horses. Preferably riding on the beach in a loose white shirt that is conveniently ripped open down the front. You know those? I think I saw some on sale at Macy's.
2. Guys who can dance. From breakdance to the tango. It's hot when you a) know how to move your body smoothly to this music and b) know how to guide my body through this music even though I'm a better dancer than you anyway
3. Guys who can play a musical instrument. Generally, this can't be any old instrument like a banjo or a clarinet. It's usually a piano or a guitar. But still...music is a great thing, if you can make it.
4. Guys holding babies or guys who can take care of little children. It's just adorable to see someone who is supposed to be a macho man be so gentle and caring with a baby.
5. Guys with foreign accents. Or girls with accents. Actually, accents are hot on both sexes.
6. Guys with great hands.What? There is such a thing.
The not-so-hot:
1. Guys with great rides. Okay, I'm sorry, but your car doesn't make you the person you are. It doesn't make you a better or worse or a cooler or hotter person. I don't care how shiny your rims are. Grow up.
2. Guys with lots of money. Ditto on the car thing. It's not something about you as a person that is going to make me unleash my great passions or anything. You may have good financial management skills, but it doesn't say much else. But really, if a girl liked you for your money, you should take it as an insult - not write a rap song about how many girls your money gets you and how that makes you a cooler person. It doesn't.
3. Guys who think the more alcohol they can chug down, the more of a man they are. That's lame. Stop ruining your liver.
4. Guys who think the more girls they have sex with, the more other girls will want them, and it makes them manly and cool. That just tells me the chances of you carrying a sexually transmitted disease are pretty high.
Guys/girls, are there cliché things that you find hot or not in the opposite sex?
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Violinists <3
Being musically inclined is a major plus.
what about singing instead of an instrument
Hmm, i guess:
Hot:
- guys who are taller than me.
- guys who can play the piano/drum.
- guys that can dress nicely on their own.
- guys who take care of their cars.
- guys who dont brag about money.
- guys that honestly like babies.
- guys who have semi common music taste.
not hot:
- over buff guys.
- cocky/ego driven guys.
- guys that refer to women as bitches.
- guys that brag about their money or status.
- guys that use their "name" to get ahead.
- guys that downgrade my music taste.
- guys who think women are less than men.
- hardcore accents that i cant understand a word.
okay, thats all. lmao.
xo
Some one who knows how to read and actually does read is a major major plus for me.
A video game junkie is soo not cool though
Being able to support yourself mentally, emotionally, and physically and not needing someone or something "else" to keep you from being you and being happy.
@lmflazyjai1984@xanga - Even better because you can create music wherever you are. ;)
someone who has a contagious smile, gorgeous eyes and the ability to make me laugh. that's all i really care about.
i agree with your not-so-hot list 100 percent!
i don't care so much about what he does as much as who he is>>>>
i think it's hot when a guy fears God, is a leader (without being arrogant or cocky), is humble, grateful, has respect for elders and women, does not flirt with other women, has integrity and self control, is self-sacrificing, responsible, thoughtful, proves his love to me through his acts of kindness and gentle words of encouragement, knows his worth, loves and respects me for who I am <3
4. Guys holding babies or guys who can take care of little children. It's just adorable to see someone who is supposed to be a macho man be so gentle and caring with a baby.
Fucking guys always use that shit in public.
Oddly, all the guys I dated have nice cars. hahaaa
I agree with the not so hot no1 thing, car. What's up with guys spending SO MUCH MORE time on their cars than their girlfriends?
I am glad mine isn't like that.
Hot:
- def. with an accent, he knows how to do it just right.
- actually knows a lot about music (hint: pretty big music nerd myself)
- knows how to cook. nothing is hotter than a man who knows how to cook you a delicious meal.
- smart, don't have to be Einstein smart, but can't be stupid enough not to know why we are at war.
- sense of humor
the list can go on...
not so hot,
i think most girls will agree is a guy who's shorter than them.
I completely agree with the "hot" list, but have something to add to the "not hot" one. Cocky and self-centered guys are pretty much a turn off.
haha, agreed!
xi think except piano/guitar/drum... how about saxophone?
Not much to contribute here...
Guys who are hot: Me
Guys who are not: Everyone else
Wait... or did I get that backwards... shiiii....
Deja vu...hasn't this been posted before?
Depends on what accent. I haven't met any girls that gets turned on by a fob accent, for instance.
P.S. I don't have one myself (since I was born and raised in the US), although a friend once joked that my inner fobness comes out during karaoke -_- . Now you know why I always do the drums or guitar in Rock Band haha.
oh, i love guys who can sing and play guitar. but there's none of those at my school! :( at least none that i know of with nice eyes and swishy hair...
it's true what you said, about the "owning something expensive or cool does not make you any hotter", or something like that. some people just don't realize that.
Actually, I love guys with nice cars. It's not a must but a plus. Nothing warms my heart like a beemer.
I totally agree with the musician one. If his fingers are skilled on his instrument, I can easily picture them being skilled elsewhere as well. Foreign accents as well. I tend to fall for European guys.
Smart guys are hot. Guys who act like they're so much smarter than everyone else and look down their noses at you are definitely not.
I like guys who stand up for what they think is important, but not guys who use it as an excuse to not consider anyone else's point of view...
well, I have to say, I find a motivated guy more attractive. Im not sayin he has to be making lots of money, but enough to where he can take care of himself. None of this working at mcdonalds at thirty buisness.
I like a good sense of humor
and someone trustworthy.
Dancing is a plus, dont have to be a good dancer, just someone to dance with me!
Guys who will willingly teach you something or help you out with whatever without being condescending.
Examples:
1) Teaching you how to fix a bike tire. Or any tire
2) Tutoring in any subject.
3) Teaching you how to dance
4) Teaching you how to play an instrument
5) Teaching something! It doesn't really matter!
i agree with the hands thing, a good pair of hands are soo sexy
All but one of your "hot" values have sexual implications.
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Hot:
- can sing, (or can't sing but try anyway... it's cute!)
- artistic
- can work well with their hands (fixing things, making things, origami?)
- ATHLETIC they don't have to be crazy fit, but if they're good enough to impress me at even just one sport... (drool)
- help out even strangers when they are in need (flat tires, pushing cars etc. I don't mean giving money to beggars)
- guys who COOK are so YUM!
Not:
- sleazy
- needy
- attention whore
- man whore
musicians are basically the story of my life
i am SUCH a sucker for them