Friday, 02 January 2009
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Friday Fun: Which Is More Normal - Phone Sex or Cybering?
There was an earlier post about cybering, and we got in an internal debate here at Datingish HQ. None of us would confess to cybering, but we talked about it "hypothetically". We agreed that we didn't get cybering, but that phone sex seems more "normal".
How about you: have you cybered or had phone sex? How did that work out for ya?
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i know it's embarrassing to admit it but yes, I've tried it. It's pathetic. Won't do it again. Pervy guys online suck.
i have tried phone sex
thats the only form of sex i ever tried.. and i think it was kinda fun....
but i did kinda fake it the first time haha..coz i did not know what was gg on...Phone sex - so much better than cyber sex.
I have not tried either and will never attempt too.
I think it's all retarded
I have tried both.
I like phone sex more though
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I've only done cybering once, lmao.
And I don't know if this classifies as phone sex, but a guy and I were on the phone for almost two hours once mainly talking about sex for 80% of the time and all how far we've gone and what we wanted to do...
and then he was like he hoped I was doing "something" all the while he was talking about wanting to do certain things, lol.
After he said that, I told him I hoped he wasn't doing anything perverted while I was telling him my stories and he was like yeah he was, then said just kidding but then said he was serious about hoping I was doing something over the phone, haha.
Of the two, I do like phone sex better and it also depends on the person I'm doing it with.
ah, sure does bring back the memories.
I personally find that cybering should be preferable - get on skype and do video chat. Haven't done it yet, but would much rather do that, than phone sex.
um, i've only had real sex, and i think it's going to stay that way.
I have tried both, with different guys I've dated when we weren't together. Personally, cybering does nothing for me...it's too impersonal for me...I can't read enough in to the text to get off instead of just laugh. Phone sex is hard for me, because I'm not so good at expressing exactly what I want/want to do. I can't get off by just talking about it anyway.
That image is so wrong for this post.
I would think phone sex is more normal. I speculate that it is more intimate than cybering. Wait, is it video chat?
@la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga - Video chatting is a GREAT way to connect when you can't get together in person. I've always enjoyed doing that.
I think normal is good ol' fashioned, person-to-person, face-to-face, *ahem* to *ahem* physical sex.
There's nothing wrong with cybering/phone sex. I imagine it has it's perks, especially in LDR's and such... but I can't imagine it could be nearly as fufilling. But I lack insight, because I've never tried.
@SeeBeeWrite@xanga - Because of the voice, right? :D
Just wait till they have those 3D reality helmets like in "Demolition Man"!
Anyways, the real thing is always better, but like @beachblondie711@xanga - said, guess phone and cybering has it's perks too?
I don't know how people consider "normality" these days and personally, that word doesn't have much value. However, back to the topic, I have tried both and I found no fun in both.
Honestly, if I wanted to have sex, then I would...do it physically. Haha, why put up the boundaries of cyberspace and phones?
I've talked on the phone with a guy about sex and sex-related things before, but it wasn't actually phone sex.
While I'd want to say that phone sex is more "normal," cybering might somehow resemble reading an explicit romance novel of some sort. I wouldn't do either though, I'm a little too shy and embarrassed for that kind of stuff
i just have sex.
Phone to me makes more sense for most. Then again, I'm very reading oriented, so cybering also makes sense. I was in a LDR, but we weren't very... sexual (despite the many years we were together in person and long distance), so we never tried either. Certainly nothing wrong with it. You'd have to be much more open with your partner to do either though, than just physical intimacy. In fact, the mere fact that you're comfortable doing so is probably a good thing. Rock on. But... webcams FTW!
i've tried both, but you can't beat the real thing.
I think both are for weirdos. I would never do either. Even if I was madly in love with someone who was half way across the world, I would NEVER do it.
I've tried both. I prefer phone sex over cybering. Hearing his voice makes it much more fun.
@not_izzy@xanga - Never say never until you are in that situation.
That pictures is not ok. NOT OK.