Monday, 29 December 2008

  • We Cybered And I'm Not Sure If He Was Joking or Not

    This is a guest blog submitted by a Datingish reader.

    My Saturday night started off pretty lame - so lame, in fact, that on my AIM away message I put "so bored," haha. 

    Around 1 a.m., one of my guy friends IMed me saying, "so, you're bored, huh?" I don't know whether he was joking or not, but he asked me to cyber with him - I guess you could say to entertain me...and I couldn't believe it; I was cracking up for the next hour it took place. We ended up talking on AIM about that until around 4 a.m.

    Now I've never cybered before, jokingly or not, until last night because I really don't see the point in it - except, maybe, to entertain people and give them a few laughs.

    What are your thoughts on cybering? Have you ever done it, and were you actually serious? I think he was being semi-serious throughout the whole thing, considering a certain picture he sent me *cough*.

    Here's another thing, though...I've really always wanted to hook up with him in real life, too. Ever since I met him four years ago, it was lust at first sight. We used to hang out all the time and now we randomly talk here and there, but we never actually hooked up.

    One of the main things that's stopping me from hooking up with him is that I feel he's a bit of a manwhore. I'm sure he takes care of himself and doesn't have a STD or anything, and I don't want to date him or anything like that.  I just don't like how he's been with a lot of people.

    Should I just shake that bit of info off and finally get with him the next time we see each other?  What would you do?

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Comments (51)

  • la_magdalena@xanga

    Yes, I have and it was fun & stimulating.

    If you want something serious with him I'd see where he stands first - and make sure he gets tested and you're protected if you decide to do anything.

    Also, what's with the picture he sent you? If it's revealing I suggest you have it deleted before it ends up on 4chan like every other nude picture sent on the internet.

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