Thursday, 25 December 2008
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Dear Dr. Datingish: Regarding Kissing...
Dr. Datingish
In a book I read (a fictional one, too, while I'm at it) once, the heroine of the story was saying something about kissing, like how the boys should kiss down and the girls should kiss up.I know height doesn't matter when it comes to relationships and such, but is that really right? Frankly, I don't mind it at all, just as long as the height difference isn't THAT large, where the boy (or girl) can be mistaken as the "kisser's" own child.
How are you supposed to kiss - down or up?
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heck if I know. Just do it the way that works best for you.
<3
I've only kissed up. As the girl, I kinda think it would feel weird kissing down, but maybe that's just me haha
now that I think about it- it does seem more like the girl who kisses up. But that's just my opinion.
i think i agree with breeadork. whichever works. stay with that. a kiss is always a kiss no matter how you give it or how it's received.
As long as it feels good , what does it matter? Hahahaha..Just be a good one =P
My girlfriend is a few inches taller than me so she's the one kissing down. I kiss up, but we both love each other. Height doesn't mean anything in a relationship unless there's like a foot difference. The way I see it, if you love each other then it wont be a problem :)
But while I'm here, it's usually the girl kissing up from what i see.
Up down left right... it doesn't matter.
Just as long as you're kissing the person you love.
I've always tended to kiss up, just because it's what feels right. Do what feels good!
There's up and down?!?! *is the same height as her bf* XD
haha I have no idea! Considering my boyfriend is pretty much exactly a foot taller than me (6 foot vs. 5 foot, or just short of, in both our cases), I think I'd notice by now in our 1.5 year relationship if kissing "up"wards is the way to go.
Something I'd been mistaken of when I was younger and less experienced, and still occasionally do is that there's "rules" you have to follow in terms of anything having to do with sexuality.
But here's the thing- There AREN'T ANY! Do whatever comes natural. That is usually what feels good for both of you.
People who are best at sex are those who aren't afraid to move how they want to move, who are into it, and who aren't afraid to try something new (even if it's something as small as tilting your head a different way).
up . . . esp for girls
i think it's much more romantic >3<
I think it's cute for a guy to kiss down and a girl to kiss up.. But that's just meee. But if it's eye to eye... i guess that's alright too.. not my cup of tea but it's whatever .
If I'm standing with the guy, I'd like him to be taller than me, even if it's just by a little bit. But that has nothing to do with kissing. I don't think there's anything wrong with a girl kissing down or a guy kissing up, though.
I've kissed down before though, twice when the guy was sitting. Once my ex (I'd rather just call him my friend) was sitting on a set of stairs and I was bending down to kiss him before I left...and then just as I tilted my head, my hair got into my face. Note to self: Keep hair back when kissing down.
Another time, the guy I liked was sitting in a chair and when walking by I decided to give him a kiss. He looked really happy when I did that, so I can't say there was a problem
Kiss in any direction you want to, so long as you the love the person you're kissing!
depends on if i'm standing, sitting, laying..
Whether you kiss up or down, a kiss is still a kiss. I'm sure both are comfortable. I've always kissed up with previous boyfriends, but with my boyfriend of almost 3 years, I've had to kiss down. Yet, my best kisses have been with him.
i don't think height matters. though it does play a big role in how people kiss. i kiss up, my boyfriend kisses down. i'm 5'1", a foot shorter than my boyfriend haha. but when i'm propped up sitting on a counter or table or whatever and i'm taller than him, i don't mind kissing down [:
psh. kiss in whatever direction in whatever way possible, just as long as you kiss the one you really love.<3
Upside down is kinda fun.. try it. If you dont like kissing up, try kissing down haha...
who cares. you are kissing the one you love, like, or attracted to? that's all it matters.
I used to kiss at lip level. [;
I don't think it really matters, though. Even if a girl is taller than her boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever, or if the boyfriend is taller than his girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever, I'm sure the kiss is almost always wanted. You're going to want to kiss/touch someone regardless of their height difference if you really like them. [:
@SleepyEnpig@xanga - I agree! Definitely romantic. <3
thankyou subscribe me
i dont mind kiss down or kiss up ..
Kissing up is cute and romantic for girls, you know, more of the normal, day-to-day kind of kiss. Kissing down is sexy . . . because a lot of the time it means the girls is on top! Just saying . . .
I've only kissed up, but I think it's just whatever is more comfortable for you. I'm only 5 foot so there's not many opportunities where I can actually kiss down. lol
I never thought it mattered.
I kiss down . . . only because my girlfriend is 5 foot and I'm 5'6". :) But I don't generally care whether I kiss up or down because sometimes when I pick her up and kiss, I'm kissing up. :P