Miss Penguin A few weeks ago, men, I stumbled upon a surefire way to get any girl you want. Be like this guy:
Now, you're probably a little confused, so let me explain. This guy was at an '80s-themed club, so of course, there is something to be said for context. But honestly, even within the '80s club context, he was pretty ridiculous. His hilarious outfit, his aerobic dance moves and poses, the stupid face and hand gesture that he made in every picture we took with him...and he was there by himself, which I have to admit is rather strange. But he could've had any girl in that room because he took what he was doing and he went all out with it. All eyes were on him for a large portion of the night. He exuded confidence and also showed that he had a sense of humor. And honestly, I think there's something really attractive about a guy that's not afraid to make an ass out of himself. It means I'll never have to worry about him saying, "we can't do that. what would people think?!"
I suppose the toned arms and not ugly face certainly help (although what's with the "soul patch" or whatever it's called? Gross). Not all guys can look that good in a muscle shirt. But that's not the point. The point is, he didn't care what people thought of him and that automatically made everyone love him. I know I was sad to see him go when he left rather early on in the night.
And actually, I know that I started out addressing this entry to men, but I definitely think it applies to women too.
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u gotta be kidding...
I think I know the guy in the picture.
Haha..not really, but I have a friend exactly like that. Completely ridiculous, and not afraid to act like an idiot. Everyone loves him. People are always afraid of standing out or doing something that might not be accepted, when in reality it might be just the right thing to do to get yourself noticed. Confidence is totally sexy.
agreed, making an ass of yourself always gets people attention.
True. But I think confidence is more about being comfortable with who you are. You don't have to act super outgoing or be the center of attention to be confident. Quiet people can be confident, too. They are confident by showing that they are comfortable not being the center of attention and that they are ok with being the quiet person.
"The point is, he didn't care what people thought of him and that automatically made everyone love him"
Well then, I guess that makes me one sexy bizatch then. 'Cause I never give a damn what anyone thinks of me.
Keep blogging.
Good luck.
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I'd go out with him, he looks hilarious and look at those arms.
As a guy who is not at all afraid to make a giant ass of myself, I will back you up on this. Women definitely find confidence very attractive.
And I definitely find confidence to be attractive in a woman. So ladies, start digging wearing your ponytails to the side and wearing legwarmers in horrendous colors. You will definitely get my attention. :)
He looks like a missing member of the Electric Six.
After reading this, I thought... Give me his number, I want to date him! lol Yes, confidence is extremely sexy... that and intelligence are my biggest turn-ons. Good blog!
Indeed, for me a girl with confidence is an instant turn on for me. It's right up their w/ a sense of humor. If a girl has confidence + a sense of humor then it's all over for me
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p.s. I find that picture of that guy hilarious. He definitely looks like he's "dancing like nobody's watching" haha.
i agrees.. it works both ways though. i would love a girl with confidence.
Look at the chick with the pink hair. He's got her, he's totally got her.
So just curious: am I the only woman here who would NOT go out with him? I'm sure he has a great personality, but the first thing I thought was, "Not my type."
Yeah, but once you realize what is underneath, it's all over.
I typically go out with out-going guys, but guys who look like that..are only in it for the attention and they are too much to handle. Sorry.
Not my type.
I have been trying for so long to convince my friend that confidence is the most important thing. She isn't convinced of it. But I definitely think that confidence is attractive because many people don't have total confidence. This is the kind of confidence that you could be yourself by yourself around people you didn't know and never worried about what people think. I think this is why so many people are attracted to confidence because true confidence is hard to find.
This is so true. Men like this are my weakness.
If a man isn't confident, it shows in his every action. And that, my friends, is just not attractive.
I can't see a picture :0
Confidence goes a long way for me. But then again, you don't know what's behind that party theme 'mask'.
He seems really fun. I definitely agree with your post because I'm always drawn to people like that.
@EccentricSiren@xanga - I wouldn't hit that either. Something about him just not caring at all about making an ass out of himself makes me slightly wary.
It's True! If you can make an ass out of yourself and make it n art form of comedy you've won me over!
;D
I like carefree attitude. he seems like the person who would wake up one morning and say "let's go to Canada!"
& I would get all giddy with excitement. I love that sort of thing.
yeah he's the man! lol if you don't like you nobody else will. so have fun with it
I've been out with guys like that.
It's so awkward!
The logic of this post is flawed, you have to be somewhat attractive. I done something of this sort, and I woke up with a case of beer next to me.