Miss Double ShotMy last few trips on the train have been a little weirder than usual. I'll see couples sitting together - greying women! balding men! - and when the woman stands up to get off at her stop, the man slaps her butt and grins.
She'll usually turn around and give him a
honey, we're in public... look and get off the train, and he sort of smiles to himself and then gets back to whatever he was doing before.
Do you and your SO do things like this before you part ways, or is that not something you'd ever think of doing? Do you get embarrassed for people who show weird signs of affection in public?
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My SO does that to me in elevators... and sometimes in public when he THINKS no one is looking... but I"m sure some people have seen. Ugh. -_-''
I wouldn't do THAT in public (unless she thinks I should, for whatever reason), but holding hands and kissing and cuddling are certainly signs of affection that are acceptable.
And yes, I'm okay with doing those things in public.
My bf only does that when no one is looking. ^_^
But hugging, hand holding, and quick pecks goodbye are totally acceptable PDA, in my opinion.
i've been on a bus where this couple was having sex. definitely not a good thing to do in public!
I dont really mind. I mean it's different if it's like a quick pat or if he's groping you. I don't mind the quick pats. My husband does it all the time. He usually gets real close up behind me and does it though so no one can really tell.
LOl we give our kisses when we part~
I do tend to conceal my affection especially in front of our friends. But to his friends I came off as being a bit bitchy and bosy with my BF. :(
I saw it too, yesterday! Only it was a pair of high school students who were doing it, and the girl was attempting to slap the guy's ass, and he kept grabbing her arm to keep her from doing it. Super-weird. I understand a kiss or something, but that's just odd.
.... I wouldn't do that. Personally, I think that's more in the realm of football players. Nice play, honey!
Pinching the ass? Ok.
Slapping it? I'll slap you.
Naw, not in public...though I have had MY butt slapped in public...haha
It's weird... All of my SOs (past and present) did/do that. I find it mildly annoying and degrading. Sometimes I don't mind, but sometimes I do. I'll usually return the favor by slapping my SOs butt.
I always smile when I see other couples do the same or similar. But if I see other couples practically devouring each other in public, I get seriously annoyed. There's a time and place for everything, but little PDAs are okay but not when it starts bordering on bedroom action.
i would not like that if my bf did it and i probably would get alittle ticked off.... because i don't even like pda.. ugh but i mean a little peck on the cheek here and there and holding hands is okay though.
nope, I find it undignified to be slapping girls' butt in public or other kind of groping...
I think it is rather hilarious. But I would much rather my boyfriend give me a kiss on the cheek than show this type of affection.
That guy must have still been sexually intoxicated or attracted to the point of initiating PDA anywhere. I personally wouldn't go farther than to grab her hips. That's pretty much it.
@SnOwY_x_II@xanga - Love and affection that is easy to conceal is probably coming off to his friends as the type that doesn't love him, or is just grabbing him to compensate for being lonely. It's something you really have to be careful with, especially in public.
idk about slapping the butt in public, personally, I prefer slipping/keeping my hand in her back pocket if she's wearing like jeans...
I guess it would depend on the degree of their PDA, kissing is fine, but there is a point where I'd like to yell "Get a room!".. lolz
one of my ex boyfriends used to like to do the butt-slapping thing in public and it pissed me off. he got punched (hard) every time he did it. it's not cute, it's annoying & degrading. give me a damn kiss or something like that please!
i think slapping the butt.. its fun..haha..especially doing it on a guys butt..i like guys butt..
and i think that(slapping butt) is ok but making out in public... is like um..."get a room!!!"
before parting, i'd usually give my last gf a gentle kiss on the lips or on the forehead. nothing too overdone; just a small way to express affection. i think guys who slap girls' behinds in public lack social dignity.
My fiance slaps my ass whenever possible. I like it and I'd probably miss it if he stopped!
I think shoving your tongue down the other's throat is much much worse then a quick pat on the ass.
I'm notorious for grabbing my bf's butt in public (and not as a parting of ways). lol He in turn (pretends) to grab for my chest.
He usually gives me a kiss in parting. I'm not a fan of full-on-tongue-action in public so yeah, simple kiss on the lips or cheek.
it's annoying to see, yes, but I think it'd be fun to be the guy, sometimes girl. eh, I don't know
My boyfriend knows better than that to do it in public lol
I also cant stand seeing people makeout. I'm sorry but no one else wants to see that. I'll give my boyfriend a quick kiss before we go that I don't mind but not tottally making out.
I am probably the biggest fan of PDA and love when my fiance shows me forms of physical affection, no matter how he does it. I'm the girl who you would see making out with her man at the bar and letting him grab me all over. It's not a lack of self respect or anything, I see it as a way to stake a claim of your SO... you know... in a sense. I just love his attention.
we didn't even makeouttttt in front of my friends. rather less touch my ass. hell no, he is getting no ass if he's doing that in front of my friends cause they're his , too. he better respect my body ! i think, a peck is enough..
but one time, oh dear..hahahahha -_- slapppppped that shitttttttt at the mall when he thought no one was watching..hm, probably but the 3 guys from the elevator was laughing cuhs i ranned away with a =O face then i smacked his. =] hahahaa