lol... someone told me that the girl could treat the guy's thing like a lolipop... but idk i neva done it b4..haha

My advice goes for fellatio and cunnilingus as well :P

I've only done it for two people, and of the two people, the first one I hated...not the person...but giving him blowjobs because it just didn't feel good for me and I didn't enjoy it...and well, you can't really hide the lack of enjoying it and unless your boyfriend [or whoever you're doing it for] is a complete bitch or douchebag, he/she will want you to enjoy it as much as they do. The second person I do it for loves it every time because I actually enjoy doing it for him...so I guess the secret to good blowjobs is
1. enjoy doing it.
2. don't hesitate to take tips and advice from him.

for giving head to girls, it takes a lot of practice. let me tell you that. when i first did it, i was horrible. i didn't even know where the clitorus was! that's the MOST important part. well, here, let me put it in numbers for you.

1. find the clitorus! it's the shiny bulb looking thing nudged near the top of the labia. if she's horny, it's be sticking out. if she's not, it'll be under a flap in that location. give it a rub. that'll solve your problem because i know it's hard to get some women horny.

2. play with it with your fingers! if you can, even go inside the hole and finger her a little before you start going at it. do this while you're kissing, to make her horny. my girlfriend tells me it's so much better the hornier she is. (duh)

3. make sure she sits on something that can absorb wetness because your spit and her goo will pool up under her and that's a no no. (or maybe i'm doing something wrong but i've seriously tried everything, and trying to trap it all in my mouth didn't feel good for her.)

4. if she's hairy, BIG FUCKING DEAL. it's not as bad as all guys say. it's itchy sometimes but i love my girlfriend and we're planning on getting married so i'll deal with a tiny bit of itchiness. also, if you have a beard, problem solved. no itchy at all.

now for the fun part.

5. make sure you play with her while you're licking. don't lose the spot, it's really easy to. to make it easier to locate, push back the labia with your fingers. this prevents playing with her, though, which i find pretty fun. carress her nipples, and if you can, finger her (don't hurt her though, the angle can be tough to even get in).

6. when she starts to orgasm, slow down. it'll feel weird for her if you're going to fast when she's orgasming according to my girlfriend. just slow down, and it'll make for a better orgasm for her.

7. oh yeah, it takes a really long time. be prepared. haha. but i find it really fun to do. i love being down there (i'm a guy, i love vaginas haha... even though hers is the only one i've ever seen). i would say you should like doing it to make it easier. i like doing it. all girls' vaginas smell, not bad, just different. i would suggest you get the hell over it and start liking it. you will, i did. i thought it was weird at first but i kinda like it now.

so, uh, yeah. and bring some toothpaste for when you're done.

I cant really say that I have any "techniques" or anything like that, but I have never had a single complaint.  In fact, the guys who were lucky enough to get my mouth on their dick all seem to think that I am the best at giving head.  I have been called a Blow Job Queen, I have made ppl cum from blow jobs when previous girls could never seem to do it.

I guess the only things I would say are make sure you are actually sucking.  Dont just put it in your mouth and move your head back and fourth.  You have to have the whole "Hoover Effect" thing going on.  I play with the head a lot. Sometimes I'll just suck/kiss/lick the head and use my hands on the shaft.  The head has more nerves (or something like that) so it feels better for the guy.  The only way Im suckin on the balls is if there is no hair on them.  OH! Deepthroat!!   Deepthroating is good.  The further down your throat the dick goes, the tighter it feels for the man. I find that most guys like sloppy blowjobs.  In other words, the more saliva the better.  When the saliva is really thick, open your mouth and slowly take it off of his dick and let him see the strings of saliva between your mouth and his cock.  Dont always try to be too fast or too slow.  Mix up speeds and whatnot. Be entusiastic about it.   I guess thats pretty much it...

I love giving head.  its one of my favorite things to do because i have the power and i just love giving pleasure.

its all about tongue. you cant just go up and down, use your tongue to
tantalize him. Use it first, just licking him from base to tip as if licking a popsicle. use a little pressure.  stay away from the head for a while and then suddenly take him in your mouth. you will get a very pleased gasp from him.  when you do start actually sucking on him, rhythm is essential. start going up and down, slowly speeding up. also, i
like to first use just my mouth and tongue, licking him up and down the middle of his cock as i move my head up and down. flick the bit where the tip meets the rest of the cock with your tongue. 

as he gets more and more worked up, start using a hand, at the base, below your mouth.  move in sync with your mouth and it will feel to him like he's totally enclosed (as if in a vagina) and you dont have to gag yourself.  use some pressure, vary it.  when he cums it is better if you can just swallow it. less mess and its better for them. keep sucking, slowly even after he's done.  you know how girls can have that great afterglow and sometimes aftershocks? guys can too.

basically just have fun with it.

Let him lead you.

I don't really feel the need to log out, I don't think that oral sex or sex of any kind should be something to be ashamed of.

@Roadlesstaken@xanga - LOL :D yea, teeth is the BIGGEST killer :D

here we go.

1) dont listen to the bs - USE your teeth.
   BUT. (yes, theres a but), DO NOT BITE. a light tickle up     and down the shaft, and especially around the frenellum (bottom of the head) can be just the thing to make him shoot his seed.

2) even if you can't deepthroat, try.
    Guys, for some reason, love to see girls (or guys) choke on their dicks. its some masculinity thing. dont ask me. however, be careful and know your limits. vomit is never pleasant.

3) if you hate it or are not going to have fun, dont do it.
    there is nothing worse than watching someone blow you who resembles the person who pulls your teeth w/o novacaine.

4) tongue. saliva.
    god gave 'em to ya for a reason. I like to think god is cool and this is the reason.

5) ladies. im sorry. i know ill get eaten for this (no pun intended) -- SWALLOW.
    there is nothing worse than watching someone spit your seed all over the floor after they're done with you. i know people who hate receiving blowjobs now because of one inconsiderate hoochie. there is a great chance that by the time sperm reaches your mouth, its dead. brush your teeth and have a tictac. i assure you, you'll be fine, and your partner will be greatly respectful.

6) COVER. YOUR. EYES.
   not a secret, but a safety tip. speaking from experience.
   also, if it gets in your hair, wash it immediately.

hope this helps.

I think the secret is communication.  I always start off w/ my basic technique, then based off feedback, I adjust to do more of what she likes, stop what she doesn't, and then anything else new.  I've had variety of reactions, from 1 telling me she doesn't feel much, to ones who squeeze my head w/ their thighs too tight (I really like that tho :P).  Everyone's preference will tend to vary, so, I think real skill is being able to eventually figure out what works the best for your current partner :)

I LOVE giving head. Huge turn on for me. No, I'm not gonna bother logging out - deal with it.

I won't go over stuff people have already covered in great detail, but one thing I like to do is to really suck everything into your mouth. Start at the top and slowly take everything in while sucking really hard - like on a straw, except bigger (well, we hope). ;]  Throw that move in there every once in awhile. It throws him off, but in a good way.

Pretty much, just have fun with it. If you're enjoying yourself, the guy will be able to enjoy himself more. And for god's sake, SWALLOW. I like the taste, though apparently I'm in the minority on that, but even if you don't LOVE it, most of the time it's tolerable. If I hear one more of my guy friends complain about how a girl ruined a perfectly good blow job at the end, I will hunt the bitch down myself.

@BaRBieGiRL_92587@xanga - THANK YOU for saying that! Some girls act like it's this huge life sacrifice or something similar and it's really not. Swallowing your man's cum isn't going to make the world end. If you don't, would you want to be responsible for scarring a man's ego? I think not. I'd hunt down the girls too haha