Sunday, 23 November 2008
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Scandalish: Does Size Matter?
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Is the cliché "it's not the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean" true? Does size matter?
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It is size to a degree. It can affect what positions you can do etc and so on. Mind you if a guy knows how to use it - it doesn't matter that much at all.
I would say yes, but not just just in favor of largeness. It works on both sides of the spectrum. Too big isn't fun (we don't want to be impaled), and neither is too small (you might as well just use a finger), so that's how it matters.
A happy medium is all we want, for the most part. I'm sure if I try to speak for everyone, some woman will jump on me, declaring she takes nothing but double-digits.
nope, size doesn't matter! people just judge people by their characters, instead of their appearances! :]
I won't even sign out to say this.
Size doesn't matter, but skills do.
No, there isn't much nerves past 3-4 inches up the vagina.
@Cest_LaxVie@xanga - I agree this isn't much of a scandelous question.
no. it only matters if the person has a tongue and/or fingers. If the person doesn't have a tonuge and/or fingers, who cares what size their penis is.
lol...if u like someone enough i think this stuff should not matter...
but idk.. i have no experience in this area..
Yes, I know I'm not signed out. I've never had sex, at least not in real life. So I wouldn't know the difference. I don't think you can say if it matters or not unless you've slept with different guys of different sizes.
That saying is definitely true! If a guy thinks he's 'big' and all that, he tends to get lazy and just kind of let it flop around, thinking, "Oh, I'm huge, she loves it, I don't have to do a lot of work," or, at least, things along those lines. This is totally untrue.. If a guy relies on his size alone, that makes for a pretty boring lay =\
This question is not that scandalous at all.. An opinion is all you're required to give
I prefer oral sex a lot of the time anyway. So I say tongue skillz matter. If it's funny because it's so small when hard than I guess it matters to some extent. Not so much though... I'm just not picky about that. If you know what you're doing, you're okay in my book!
I don't feel the need to sign out.
I've had three partners. Two were similar in size and they considered themselves "small" even though they're actually average. My third (and most recent) is considerably thicker and a little longer than the other two. It makes a difference, but not how you'd think.
It doesn't feel any better or worse now. In fact, it takes a lot more time to warm up for the larger man and foreplay is a MUST in order to keep from hurting myself.
And it is true that most nerves go no further than about 3 inches in and most guys exceed that.
Size doesn't really matter as far as pleasure goes, though. It all feels about the same, big or small.
Size doesn't matter to a degree. Somewhere in the middle is the best. It matters more how skilled the guy is than how big his penis is.
size doesn't matter. i mean a females internals doesn't get any larger (unless you are about to deliver a baby), but yeah. skills are way more important! if it's large and he doesn't know how to use it, then well...it's way worst than being completely tiny but knowing how to be a good lover.
plus....what's "small" out there is typically the average size.....what's large....is typically above average.....i don't think every chick out there wants a 14 inch cock rammed into them....
@awokenfatality@xanga - Except for thickness, which is *really* important. Or the psychological enjoyment from an average-to-large penis, which makes sex better, too.
For me, size matters because after initial entry, I can't feel anything good unless the guy is consistently pushing against my G-Spot. Granted that I have never had an orgasm due to intercourse, my desire to have sex, greatly depends on the guy's 'style', almost more so then his size, but not by much. If you can make it exciting for me then I won't feel like I'm completely wasting my time.
As for a guy I may like, as much as I hate to say it, yes, a small penis could easily put a damper on a relationship with me. We might as well just be best friends or something because I will never have the desire to be intimate with him. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable. Why should I bother with some one who is just going to make it boring for me?
From exeriences that ive had, the girls really dont care about the size. What matters as far as size goes, is the width. As for the skill concept...lol, i understand what people talk about with "skills" but, give a monkey a porno and he'll develop 'skills' i think it really doesnt matter, as a guy, either your significant other likes it, or she doesnt. size doesnt matter.
I think size seems to be more important to men than it is to women.
Size does matter to an extent. Reason being is because most women's G-Spot is located deep inside the vagina. I had a boyfriend once that wasn't meeting the size expectation. It had a HUGE toll on our relationship because if you're not sexually satisfied with someone, you can't have that sexual intimacy and have a healthy relationship. I feel that if you're in a relationship with someone and you are NOT sexually intimate, then you're just in a "friendship".
@jewjewbeedragon@xanga - Actually, the G-spot is only located 1-2 inches inside a woman's vagina. It's quite possible to stimulate the nerves with the use of a finger or two, either from your partner or by yourself. The only thing "deep inside" a woman is the cervix opening, which it seems a lot of people confuse for the G-spot. While bumping against the cervix can cause pleasure during sex, it can also cause pain.
To the OP - I don't feel that size matters. My current boyfriend is smaller than any of my previous sexual partners and I feel that the sex is the best it has ever been. What he lacks for in length, he makes up for in style.
And here I was thinking we were talking about weight. I guess I am still somewhat green eh?
I feel no need to sign out on this one. I think that if the premise is whether or not the sexual sensations are all you hope for in the first or second encounter then penis size may be more important. But in a long term relationship where a couple takes the time to please each other? It matters not at all.
The only sexual organ that I demand a certain "size" of - is the brain. When a man cares, listens, learns, and uses what he learns to please ... who cares about the size of his penis?
I wonder how gay men will respond.
Size doesn't matter much unless he's really big. that's when it matters to me because its more painful than enjoyable. I agree with everyone else when it comes to skills.
To an extent. I wouldn't want too small, or too big...anything in between is dandy. Otherwise, I've never had an SO that wasn't the most compatible size for me that didn't find another way to make me happy. So while during the actual act size matters some, it never bothered me, because there were so many other things to do.
I've always found thickness more of an issue than length for myself, at least.
@newamba_flamingo@xanga - Definitely.