Smile at her,  make her laugh,  sit next to her,  let her win at whatever you're doing,  tell her she's beautiful,  give her your undivided attention,  be playful...

poke her (with your fingers), tell her how good she looks, be mean but not attacking her!

I think you should just get to know the person in general. Whenever I meet someone new, I don't think about how I should do this or that. Just be yourself. Now, if you know you like someone and you want to talk/flirt with them, just be yourself, make a joke here and there. Learn about them! But overall, just feel confident that you're getting to know them rather than enamoring someone.

take her to the places she likes or just invite her places to hangout like football games or sports games .. joke with her [in a nice way] to make her laugh; like if she did something silly tease her and laugh so she knows that you're just joking .. compliment her [but not overly] and smile :] girls like that alot.

Stop thinking about trying to flirt. Be yourself. Cliche advice, but the best I've EVER listened to! You cannot flirt when you are worrying about flirting....it's like trying to pass an exam while you were told you're going to fail anyway....there is no point and you're wasting time.

Stop thinking. Be yourself. Say what pops into your head. As long as you're the most unPC person in the world, this should work.

simple, just be yourself, be different, a little mysterious, don't be a kiss ass, it's pathetic. Respect her, try to be a LITTLE mean, be interesting. Be funny and when the time is right, be sweet. good luck

absorb some qualities off edward cullen. hes got the perfect qualities we want in a guy. and the way he flirts is perfect.

I'm myself.  Surprisingly enough, it works better than when I'm trying to catch someone's attention.  And that's not meant to be read sarcastically.

if i told you, this would mean that there'll be more competition in this industry...  but what the heck, i strive on competition... :P  haha, the more, the merrier..

it's actually quite simple, smile and just be yourself.. 

haha~  you're probably thinking, that was it?

obviously there's more to it. i have to say, one of the key components would be loving yourself; if you love yourself, your actions will not be affected no matter what she thinks or what others around think..  which means, you will most likely do what you normally do (yourself).. 

but too often, we care about what others think, and we end up putting thoughts of what we don't want to be..  subsequently, we end up trying too hard being someone they would accept..  either you practised enough to be like a robot or you haven't practised enough and you end up stumbling and making a fool out of yourself..  but of course, at the same time, by doing that, you're already being somebody you're not...  not sure if that makes any sense.. 

but yeah..  just a little something to get you started..  good luck.. :P

Eye contact! Not in a scary, I'm-watching-you kind of a way, just look her in the eye just a couple seconds longer than seems polite. And smile with your eyes, engage. Mainly though just act like you're confident until you feel confident.

"I've been told that you have to slightly insult a girl - make fun of something she says or what she does."

What you're referring to is "negging". This is usually done to HBs (hot babes) because supposedly they're used to getting hit on from guys all the time. So when you neg them, you get their attention since you're not opening with a compliment. The hotter a girl is, the more negs she gets. Also, it's not supposed to be an insult really.. something like "Oh, I like your nails. Are they real?" kind of thing.

So, I hate to do this.. but head down to Borders, or hell, even Google The Mystery Method by Mystery. This is for guys who would like to develop game. And I say "I hate to do this" because alpha males/ players/ *ssholes who know this stuff inside out use it solely to get laid. But in your case, it sounds like you genuinely want to meet women (hopefully not with just sex in mind).

Personally, I just keep it natural. Heart on sleeve. If you tense up or get scared of the woman, it means you are apparently, flirting with the wrong target. Being yourself, or being honest first and foremost is a nice reel-in.

"As soon as I walk up in the club,

I'm a flirt!"

Have a little confidence. Be natural..Get a little eye contact. Smile, Look away..Glance back slowly a bit& what do you know? If he's still checking you out.. He'll most likely come up to you.

Ah, laughter is always a good form of flirting..or playing it hard..that little "gr! i hate you! stop!!!" thing..But most likely, it will just piss you off =) hahaha

Have a lil confidence.  Be yourself.

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