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I need original cell phone statements scanned and numbers changed then reprinted front and back!, if this is something you can do well and do in a very quick manner I need to speak with you asap... There are three to four bills that need to adjusted with numbers on pages, front and back.
I am dealing with a jealous boyfriend that wants to see my statements asap.
I am willing to compensate with a nice sum of cash!
I will come to your location and wait to have them done, must have a a nicer printer, I will supply the paper.
sourceWhat about you - have you ever deleted a call (or text) from your cell phone history to hide it from a jealous S.O.?
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No.
No, I haven't had to deal with that much jealousy.
It sounds like that persons in more of an abusive/controlling relationship. And yes, I have. Not because I had something to hide, just because I didn't want him to get upset or feel like he was doing something wrong and i in turn had to console with someone else
Nopers cause my bf said he dont get jealous lol
I have b/c I felt like I had to do it. I hate it and I resented it and that's why we ultimately broke up. It took me 2 and a half yr to realize that I am worth more then what he gave me credit for (he wasn't psycho, but insure and very smart about it).
why would you need to hide the numbers in the first place?
fuck that.
psycho.
there is never a reason for a guy to look in my phone/papers unless i tell him to. i'm an intensely private person about that sort of thing, and if he cant respect (or trust!) that then too bad.
No, that's dumb. I am not afraid to share anything with him.
No.
You should be able to explain it and have nothing to hide. And if he does not trust u then it a problem in his mind that needs to be sorted out.
that's just extreme. i've deleted some texts that he prob wont like, but that's it....
wtf is that?? that's a little extreme, imo.
my fiance and i don't go through each other's cell phones. his psycho ex did that and found out stuff she got pissed about, sooo.........i figure, if you snoop, you don't have the right to get pissed about what you find.
we just ask. we expect the other will be honest.
No, but why would he be in my cell phone anyway? Weirdo.
Nope.
If that isn't a sign this is a relationship devoid of trust, I don't know what is!
Two words: GET OUT!
No, but I've hid certain pictures. I don't normally show my phone to my SOs anyway.
omission is also a form of deception. so you tell me.
Why would I need to? A relationship is built on honesty...
I can't believe someone would go to such lengths to get that done. Not worth it.
And no, my boyfriend trust me and I trust him. We have the option to check anyone the other owns; but we don't.
Xo
yes, but I had a good reason to.
couple of questions:
1. Is the boyfriend insanely batty jealous and has no reason to ask for her phone bill?
IF SO. THIS IS A VERY DUMB GIRL AND NEEDS TO LEAVE THIS *BOY*.
2. Does he actually have a reason to reach those lengths of asking for her phone bill?
IF SO, THIS IS A VERY DUMB GIRL AND NEEDS TO LEAVE THIS *GUY*.
Simple as that.
yours truly,
beer time
we both have access to both of each others cell phone bills. And actually I do sign onto his and get numbers off of it for him or help pay his bill on time :).
but not in those contexts. I have asked before because he was recieiving odd phone calls at odd hours of the night and not from guys. so i looked. it was his ex calling.
but he let me on it.
i dont demand i ask if they say no its something to hide.
obviously this girl has something major to hide. a fling or something on the side.
My SO is not the jealous type. He tries to be sometimes(and it's cute in a way) when I mention another guys name that is just a friend and will only be a friend. And I remind him that nothing will happen and if you try to hurt him, you'll just get hurt.
But I had an ex that was really jealous and everything so I had to make sure I didn't leave anything in that inbox. But I left that loser. I am better off without, my current SO is so great and wouldn't flip out over the stupid stuff like someone else.
I would totally leave that guy if he wanted that info. My friend says that cell phones are private so you should be able to do whatever you want with them and not let the other person see it.
i've never kept anything of that sort from my bf, and i don't have a reason to.
i have however deleted a message from my (now) boyfriend when he hadn't broken up with his (then still) girlfriend. her and i were in the same class, and i was afraid she might find out about him and me before he got a chance to break up with her. (to save her from hurt and rumors.) and right after i deleted his messages and left the room to get something, she got into my cellphone and looked through my messages. :P like im that stupid, to leave it lying around when theres something thats not to be found.
Yeah, I've deleted numbers and texts from my phone. Numbers because I don't talk to the people anymore and texts because my inbox/outbox can only hold 50 at a time.
I stopped hiding shit from my boyfriend when I realized that he was going to get jealous no matter what. As long as he isn't threatening me and I know I'm not doing anything wrong, I shouldn't need to keep things from him.