Saturday, 11 October 2008

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  • y_tc@xanga

    I think so, that's how he founds you right??
  • OstentatiousEloquence@xanga

    The question is not "is it normal?" Who the fuck cares if it's normal? The question is, does it bother you? If it does, it's probably because you feel more committed than he does, as you do not do the same thing. If it's no, then you're fine, and you just are worried about appearances. I'm thinking your answer would be yes. And I think you should talk to him. I don't trust that kind of behavior, personally. But it's up to you. Message me if you want any more advice. I plan to be a relationship counselor in the future.
  • porcelainx27@xanga

    If that's how you two met then it is perfectly understandable that you would feel paranoid about the situation.


    I would start to question his motives, and definitely talk to him about it. I'll be honest, if it were me in your position, I'd most certainly be thinking he was planning something, or that he was losing interest in me.

    Ask yourself this - if he was single, and doing this, what would be his intentions behind this behaviour? Why surf other people's profiles, bearing in mind that the one thing that they all share in common is the same gender, if you are not looking for something more than friendship?


    I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it really doesn't sound good, and it's not OK by any means.
  • porcelainx27@xanga

    @oOBuBBLes711Oo@xanga - I totally agree.
  • AnonymousBlonde@xanga

    You met each other online, but the thing you don't mention is if you have a relationship that's purely over the web.

    If the two of you are in a physical relationship (meaning you have met and see each other regularly in person), I wouldn't be really all that paranoid about him checking out other women's profiles unless he is a) constantly looking at one or two particular individuals and b) leaving unnecessary comments on one or two particular individuals' profiles.

    If your relationship is based online (meaning no or extremely limited physical contact), you should talk to him to see if any of your paranoia has root in reality.  Just because he's looking at other girls doesn't mean he's looking for a new girlfriend.

    Regardless, if it is bothering you COMMUNICATE .  Talking is the ONLY way to figure out the problems, questions, and solutions in a relationship.
  • vi3ts3xs3y@xanga

    i think its ok unless hes msgin them askin for the numbers, id kick em where it hurts.
  • ToxicWishes@xanga

    I don't think it's a big deal. Ask him about it. Just don't jump to conclusions...
  • mz_d0rkabl3@xanga

    he could just have been bored? or maybe looking for a hookup for his friend..
  • izakura@xanga

    I think you should ask him why he is doing that.

  • RONALYNEdotPi@xanga

    @cokeaddict@xanga - AGREED. ;p
  • aamirkhanbwn

    Hi All,


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  • aamirkhanbwn

    Hi All,


    I Am Aamir Khan I Am Single But Looking For, I need A Girl Who will Marry With me, I U Know Any Girl How Like To Marry With me Plz Contect to me on This, yaq2015@yahoo.com , pakistannme1@yahoo.com , azharmalik08@yahoo.com , +923146066025


    Thanks with Regards
    Aamir Khan

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