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So here's your first one - we'll start out easy. What's one thing you've wanted to tell your BF/GF but haven't told him or her yet?
Comments (26)
Question: Would we have to answer anonymously?
I haven't told my boyfriend that I don't like the music he plays with his new band.
the only problem I have with this...I can never see the code correctly.
Nothing that I can think of.. I think I've told him everything but I do wish I had stressed it more when I told him about my fears of us drifting apart in our relationship because of the distance & been more adamant that I want to see him soon & that I'm not okay with just seeing him once every 6 months. That sounds like a crap deal to me. Then again, I dunno if he already knows it. It's so damn hard to gauge things when you talk online! :(
I think I miss him a lot.. more than I can communicate. & sometimes things just scare me.. :( I just don't know how to say it to him..
That if he doesn't start giving a shit and treating me and my needs as an equal part of the relationship, I'm gone. I'm done being frustrated and hurt because everything revolves around him.
@willow_ann209@xanga - you don't *have* to, but we opted for anonymous commenting so people would feel less pressure about having to answer with a username attached.
i haven't told my boyfriend that i love him.
@datingish - I am very amused that thus far there have been no anonymous answers.
I've always wanted to tell my ex girlfriend that I think God is stupid. Her entire life is based around religion.
Yeah I want to submit an anonymous answer! this reminds me of post-secret almost.
I've always wanted to stick it in her pooper.
OK, here we go: I'm in love with a South American pack-goat.
....
...Am I doing it right?
that i'm ready to have sex.
Looks like you can't simply copy the URL from this blog, sign out, then reuse that copied URL to post anonymously. You need to sign out and browse from http://www.datingish.com/ to this post, then you can choose to comment Anonymously as the screen shot shows and directions say.
Basically, if you don't see the "Anonymous" option, you're not posting anonymously.
(sheesh, now that I wrote that, I sure hope this works lol.)
Why can't people on this site follow directions?
One time my girlfriend had bad breath and i had to avoid kissing her the whole day. I didn't bother telling her. I probably should have
Yay for Anonymous!
I don't feel the need right now, but it's good to know how, just in case.
posts!
It really bugged me that my boyfriend peed sitting down. I couldn't take him seriously as a man. (he was 22)
*ex-boyfriend
just to try this anonymous thing...
i dont think ive told my bf enough about my exes. he knows the rough outlining of my past relationships, but nothing too specific.
test?
I wish I could tell my boyfriend that while I'm willing to wait until he finishes school to marry him, I'd really rather help him finish and marry in a couple months.
I always wanted to tell my ex that he'll never amount to anything and that he's a selfish idiot asshole that only thinks about himself. Also, that he's an aweful Christian that indulges in every sin (except for murder) and that just because he believes in God it's not going to save him from hell.
@willow_ann209@xanga - Music? What music does he play?
My boyfriend knows that I want to get married. What he doesn't know is that if we're not engaged soon, I'm going to leave him.
boyfriend...... thats why an ex bf is an ex.... haha