Tuesday, 07 October 2008

  • I Don't Want You in The Bathroom with Me, Thanks.




    Mr. Lion

    On an episode of Two and a Half Men, Allen's girlfriend, Kandi, decided she wanted to brush her teeth while he was using the bathroom. He asked her to step out but she couldn't figure out why she should.

    He explained that he wanted his privacy while using the bathroom, even though she argued that they had already seen each other naked, so what was the big difference?

    The only time I've used the bathroom with someone inside was to brush my teeth while a girlfriend was taking a shower. I knew she was there but the curtain was closed so I didn't see her, and right after brushing I walked out. But I don't know if I would be comfortable brushing my teeth or watching someone using the bathroom even if I'd seen them naked already. 

    The bathroom seems like a sacred place sometimes.

    Would you brush your teeth while your SO was using the bathroom?
    If you've seen them naked already, does it matter if you see them naked in the bathroom?

Comments (105)

  • joyouswind@xanga

    I've never understood that. It freaks me out. Toilet time is me time. Go away.

  • kaitlyn_in_wonderland@xanga

    I would never do that. I only do that when it's like a hotel room with one bathroom and someone is showering or something. But why would you want someone in there why your showering or using the toilet or anything else for that matter? That's so..weird. It doesn't matter if they've seen you naked before or not, it's just awkward.

  • awokenfatality@xanga

    It depends what they're doing in the bathroom. If they're taking a crap, nope, I'm out of there.


    I come from a huge family all sharing one bathroom, so I'm used to people doing things around me while we're both moving around the bathroom. Giving that, I don't think it matter, especially if you've seen them naked.
  • zubes5806@xanga

    yes, it's a bit odd to see your SO using the bathroom...but do you really go in an watch them actually using it?  or are you just occupying the same room?  there's a difference.


    ...plus, if there's only one bathroom and you have to go, you have to go.

  • EarthsAzureLight@xanga

    It doesn't matter really. You aren't watching them, you're just in the same room.

  • my_final_username@xanga

    If I had a girlfriend as she was in the bathroom, 


    I would wait until she finishes whether she was in the shower,  drying herself off whilst she naked,  or using the toilet -  before even thinking about brushing my teeth.


    Even if she said it was okay for me to brush my teeth whilst she was in the bathroom.


  • organic_idiot@xanga

    It all depends on why I'm using the bathroom. If I'm crapping, well yeah... I'd like my alone time. I could be stinky... lol


    But if I'm in the shower, or getting ready, whatever.... then I don't care. I've grown up in a bigger family, so I'm used to it!

  • PhantomStar32@xanga

    Actually going to the bathroom and having someone in there is one thing, but being in the shower and them being in there is different.


    Luckly, we have a water closet where the toilet is by itself. So there would be no reason for 2 people to be in there anyways.

  • Angelina_Everlong@xanga

    Well, the only thing my ex and I didn't do in front of each other was drop a deuce with the door open.  Everything else was legit and we didn't care.  It was a lot of fun after sex sometimes when we'd both go in there to make sure and pee, haha.

  • MustangSally04@xanga

    Are you kidding? I can barely pee in a super quiet public bathroom with stalls if there are other people around...if someone wanted to come in and brush their teeth while I was trying to use the bathroom I'd just have to give up and wait until they left! That's way too close...I don't do well with an audience in the bathroom! Some rooms of the house are just sacred!

  • WhenHateIsTheOnlyOption@xanga

    Bathroom business is personal and anyone who wants to be apart of the most unattractive part of a person's life has some problems.


    By the way, people shouldn't share a bed that's also impersonal.

  • EndlessCycleof_Me@xanga

    Me and my boyfriend are always in the bathroom together. We sometimes take our showers together. & the door is always left unlock if one of us is in the shower. We brush our teeth together..Everything with the exception of #2!


    However for a while he'd cringe if I came in the bathroom while he was taking a "leak" I guess it's a comfort thing because I'm never surprised when he enters [at his own risk]

  • xwolfae@xanga

    haha, i've peed with a good percentage of my best friends in the bathroom with me, but maybe that's a little different for girls.

    it's just kind of some time you like to have to yourself, i think... especially when you're at home. and because you're intimate on every other level, why do you need to be here when i'm peeing too?

    i dunno, it's an interesting question. i'm not sure if i could answer it well. :)

  • DearSnippie@xanga

    i dont see a problem with it. We're not shy people.

  • ZepBlueEyedGirl@xanga

    Holy monkeys, NO.  As stated earlier, bathroom time is private time.  I don't care if we've seen each other up close & nekkid...we don't need to be intimately familiar with bathroom functions.  I just think there are some boundaries that should remain, even in a very solid relationship.  If you & your partner are fine with it, do your thang, but as for me, I fly solo in el bano.

  • Princess_Jewelia@xanga

    i will wait until he's done then brush my teeth.. 

    bathroom..  i need my privacy in there.. 


    but then again, i need my privacy and space period

  • cmdr_keen@xanga

    When my girlfriend and I are showering/peeing/brushing teeth we tend to keep the door open/unlocked - sometimes we're just carrying on conversations! But when it comes to pooping, that's where the line is drawn.

    Guess for every couple and person it's different, but I dont really mind one way or the other...

  • morbidlywonderful@xanga

    I'd rather not watch/listen to anyone else use the bathroom, much less my girlfriend.

  • willow_ann209@xanga

    I don't care about seeing him in the bathroom. If I have to brush my teeth and he's okay with it, I'll brush them. I tend to walk around the house when I brush my teeth, so I wouldn't really be in there that long.

  • hopelessromantic

    No no no no no. Certain times should be designated alone time and going to the bathroom is one of them. I wouldn't necessarily care if my SO came in while I was showering (or well, I guess it would depend on the shower curtain situation) but if I were peeing, I would not be ok with someone just walking in.

  • sorjai@xanga

    like some others said, I don't mind being in the bathroom with the girl unless she's taking a crap. Then yeah I don't want to be in there with her. I'm sure that if I'm doing the same, she wouldn't want to be in there either =D.

    Otherwise, no biggie, especially if we've already exposed each other.

  • cRyStaL_rAiNe@xanga
    Scribble outside the lines...

    I always just wait, the max a person would take really is two minutes, unless they're getting ready for bed or for work, then that'll take longer, but we're talking about quick things like going number 1 or brushing teeth. 

    Anyways, I've never really thought about it, but I guess my bf and I like our privacy because we always shut the door when using the toilet.  His sink is separate from the toilet, so I guess brushing teeth doesn't really affect the other person. 

    I think I might've used the toilet once while he was in the shower and that was because I REALLY had to tinkle and he had juuuust hopped in.  I asked if I could and he said it was fine, so maybe he doesn't mind much.  We've never talked about it so we just leave it at that.

  • retardedlypretty@xanga

    Well, some people are really weird about it. I don't care. If my husband is using the bathroom, going #1 or #2 :3, that's fine with me. It doesn't gross me out or anything. I don't make a point to be like "o hay wassup" while he's using it, but if we're talking.. then what the hell. HOWEVER, if >I< am using the bathroom, it's a different story. It doesn't REALLY bother me if he's in the same room when I pee, but I'd rather him not. If I'm doing more than peeing, NO WAY. He will never be in the room. Ever. Even though we're married, I still want to keep myself as ladylike as possible. ;)

  • ToxicAva@xanga

    Depends how comfortable you are with each other.  My ex and I were comfortable I could brush my teeth while he was using the bathroom and vice versa.  Pretty much anything went, door open, door closed, conversations.  I am not in a relationship now, but I would hope we would be comfortable enough to do so.  O well, just some input.

  • Trigger821@xanga

    nope, the door is there for a reason and I really don't need to see someone else using the toilet neither or have them see me using the toilet. I would rather use the kitchen sink to brush my teeth.

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