Tuesday, 02 September 2008

  • Am I Going After A Player?

    This is a guest blog submitted by a Datingish reader.

    A few months ago, I was at a friend's house - she was talking to this boy that she really liked. Being stupid, I took his screen name and started IMing him. He's a grade above us and goes to our school. At the time he was taken, but we still talked a lot and flirted. Something happened between him and my friend and they quit talking, but he'd still talk to me.

    At the first football game of the season, he and his girlfriend stood right next to us. I ignored them and decided not to bother them. That night he texted me and was asking why I didn't say anything. From that night on we've been really flirty, texting 24/7.

    Last week, he and his girlfriend broke up and he began liking another one of my friends (who has kind of a horrible reputation when it comes to guys). complete whore. I told him to be careful but wouldn't tell him why, and he avoided me all week.

    Saturday night, out of nowhere, he texted me and we resolved everything. For the past three days we've been talking non-stop. And he's sending me mixed signals, saying he wants to 'mess around' even though he's emotionally taken by another girl.

    I still like him for some reason, but I'm not sure if I should or not. Is this guy a player, and more importantly, is he worth my time?

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