Monday, 01 September 2008
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Dear Dr. Datingish: He's Sending Mixed Signals - What's Up?
I met a guy on an online forum and he followed me around until he told me he liked me. He was my first boyfriend ever, and even though it was an online relationship I was fine with it. We dated and had a good relationship until one of his friends said he had been fooling around with another girl.
I dumped the guy, but when he started e-mailing me (and adding me on every messenger he could, as well as finding my address and cell phone number) obsessively I started a relationship with him again. We were on shaky terms until he decided that he was "more attracted" to someone else than to me, and he broke up with me. He followed that up with asking me if we could still cyber.
I said no, that I had never wanted to begin in the first place, and I wouldn't do it with anyone I wasn't dating anyways. He bothered me about it for awhile, then said he was in love with me again.
I'm getting completely mixed feelings from him and I don't know what to do. What should I do?
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Comments (83)
Forget about him.
You should definitely leave him!
Its totally obvious he's those kind of guy who cant keep it to one girl...he isnt all that good at handling relationships. You will never be happy... leave him and find someone else. Someone who will only have his eyes on you :)
dump the guy!
he's a dick. just leave him.
drop him like a bad habit
Block him.
Block him.
Ditto that.
He sounds kind of creepy and stalkerish...drop him, block him, and forget about the guy! :] He doesn't deserve to treat you the way he does; he's no good.
tell your dad. he'll take care of the rest.
Leave him and call the police!
Stay away from him! Block him on all internet sites as well as chat services.
Youre being used. Do you not see that? Do not continue to be THAT girl who everyone laughs at and feels sorry for behind your back.
Youre not a yo-yo to be reckoned with!
don't speak to him anymore because there's obviously something very wrong w/ him. besides, why would you want to commit to an online relationship with a guy who's always dropping you for someone else and then just coming right back. there's no point to it and im sure you can find someone else that you can actually see and speak to in person as opposed to online only.
Uhhh... Dump him. Do you even need to ask? Block him from every messenger he added you on. This guy has some issues and you don't want to have to deal with him.
drop him. right now. block him, and everything else that you can do to avoid him, even if it means changing all your usernames and such.
you don't deserve to be treated like his 2nd choice.
Ew, dump that thing now. This situation just stinks of creepy.
Havent you seen shows like "how to catch a predator"? Online sites/messengers + stalker dudes = NOT GOOD!! Besides, i'm sorry to say, the movie "You've Got Mail" made online relationships famous but they dont work like that in real life. The internet is like another world where a relationship honestly cant exist because you only know a person through a computer screen, what they are actually like is not known because they could be lying their ass off. Get a real man, this one sounds like a blow up doll from a porn shop, fake.
Yeah, this is a no-brainer. Dump him, block him, etc, etc.
Block him completely. He sounds like bad news all around. He sounds like a creep and only wants you around to cyber when he has nothing better to do.
This guy sounds like a stalker. Avoid him ASAP!!!!!!!! >:(
Forget him. Obviously, he only has one thing on his mind, and it's not being in love with you.
Agreed. ha.
Avoid at all costs.
lose the cyber creep
he's a STALKER! leave him, forget him, don't give a damn about him at all. overall, it's an online relationship...
@aznsam999@xanga - Amen! lol
But really, this guy basically wanted to spend his convenient time he had taking advantage of you while he was still able to have something on the side in the "real life." This isn't a case of mixed signals, it's just you hoping you're wrong. He's a jerk, not worth your time....just move on! Maybe try to find someone that isn't online, because those relationships lack reality anyway!