Friday, 29 August 2008
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Dear Dr. Datingish: Are We Just Hanging Out Or More?
My ex-boyfriend (of 2 years) and I have been broken up for 3 1/2 months. He just randomly asked me to hang out.....after not seeing each other for almost 2 months...and barely talking, too. After we first broke up, I was the one who wanted to talk and hang out but he didn't want to. Now he's changed his mind.
Could it be that he just wants to say hi (like he says so)...or could there be something else behind it? Should I accept his invitation to hang out and see what he wants or decline and not bring up old feelings?
Moved On, Yet Confused
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i think all of the questions you asked are good questions, but questions you should ask your ex. i would ask him all the questions and then if you still want to accept the invite.
move on i think he is just wanting a booty call
There is always the chance that he wants something else. BUT, you wouldn't really know until you find out. It really depends on how well over him you are at this point. There shouldn't be any reason why exes shouldn't hang out (I wouldn't know where that rule came from anyways because I'm still friends with all my exes, best friends with 2 of them). But, if you feel that you are ready just to see him again as a friend, go for it and see what he wants.
he might just miss you and want to see how you've been, but not necessarily get back together. you spent so much time together and cared for each other, sometimes it just feels weird to never speak to that person again. if you do decide to hang out, don't go in hopes of getting back together because you might get heartbroken all over again.
refuse. because even if he really only wants to be friends or say hi..if you start getting feelings again for him, well it wouldnt turn out too good when he doesnt return them back.