Wednesday, 30 July 2008

  • Making Your Relationship a Public Affair

    This is a guest blog submitted by sleepyhead.

    Most people have fantasized about getting friendly with their significant other or a stranger in a public place - maybe you've seen or even known people who have "done it" somewhere typically considered taboo.

    Friends from as far back as high school have done it on the subway, in the back of a cab, in a movie theater and the school library. In an issue of my college newspaper, a checklist of public places to have sex and anonymous participants' experiences were printed so everyone could join in the fun.

    More power to them, but you won't catch me in the act anytime soon - I'm too scared to get caught!

    Is there a public place where you'd want to do it? Where?

Comments (39)

  • john@xanga

    wow i must be boring...

  • GainingMyIdentity@xanga

    Well, I dated a guy last summer that I met doing a production of Oklahoma (I was Laurey to his Curly) and we always talked about doing it on the stage at that theater.


    I was all about it, but it was an outdoor theater and he isn't all about the outdoors....

  • unATTAIN_able@xanga

    @john@xanga - your comment made me laugh only because it was coupled with your picture of a stickman dropping ice cream.

  • enterthelabyrinth@xanga

    I guess I joined in that craze. I have done it in several places that are "taboo" and it's fun, but after getting caught last time, I don't think I'll be doing it again anytime soon!

  • xxmusicxxfreak@xanga

    I've done it in the park. But it was nighttime.

  • spokenfor@xanga

    @unATTAIN_able@xanga - ditto. haha.


    the only thing I've ever fantasized about is elevators. but they all have cams now, so thats just an amatuer porn vid waiting to happen.

  • n3ssaac@xanga

    i'm too old for that now. i used to do it in strange places in high school. i've outgrown that phase already.

  • organic_idiot@xanga

    That's a pretty good question. I don't want anyone seeing me "do it" though. I think that stuff should be private.

    Though, near a lake (or any body of water) or, even though it's completely disgusting, in a public bathroom stall is pretty intriguing to try.... ;)

    Peace&love,
    Brooke.

  • daeshii@xanga

    When I was younger, we used to make a game of it.  I've done it on a park bench (ah, skirts!), public restroom (that didn't last long...ugh, nasty place!), in a car, in a national park, in a public park, under a bridge, under stairs...and I'm sure there are a few more places I'm forgetting, but those days are behind me for the most part. 

  • OstentatiousEloquence@xanga

    Eh, the library/movie theater/whatever else I can't think of at the moment would be hot... but I just really don't wanna get caught. That would fucking suck.

  • Andrea_TheNerd@xanga

    I've totally done it in the handicapped entrance to the city courthouse, right across the street from the county jail!

  • Jet_Cabusao@xanga

    I'd like to but I don't think I'd have the guts to do it anywhere really public. I've done it in a car down a lane... and yes people did pass... :S And I've done it in a park but a... not so well known one... and we checked that there wasn't anyone around and found a hidden sort of area.


    I have a friend that did it in a kiddy park on a swing which I have thought always seemed intruiging.

  • AllMyNamesAreTaken@xanga

    I don't believe sex should be a public affair. I would prefer people to leave it at home, or at least in a place with walls and without people. It's just exhibitionistic and attention-whoreish.

  • jab_06@xanga

    hay barn, lawn mower, apt. complex pool, just to name a few.. it just makes it a little more exciting. 

  • my_final_username@xanga

    I would not want to do in the public.


    The closest I would probably do it,  if I had a girlfriend and she suggested it was be in the back garden at night if we had one.


    Or in a double sleeping bag outside


    However we will have to check no animals are in the garden or can get in.

  • hopelessromantic

    Tempting  but I would be too afraid of getting caught - not even by the cops but just by people in general. Sex to me is something intimate, not to be shared with the rest of the world. And while the thought of doing it in certain public places does carry a tiny bit of a draw for it's illegalness and the thrill of it, I think I'll pass.

  • Insane_Siren@xanga

    The possibility of getting caught is part of the fun! :D


    I haven't done it in public, I'm super high standard picky about who I sleep with, so when and if my friend, when and if. Oh but personally I'm all up for it.
  • TrappedAlive@xanga
    calculate

    I must admit, my SO and I enjoy to partake in risky exhibitionist behavior...the outdoors, public restrooms, backstage areas--you name it. We both enjoy it immensely...I'm thinking the thrill and excitement of the experience is what turns us on.


    It's all in good fun!


  • aznsam999@xanga

    I would like to do it in the White House

  • cuzimlexxi@xanga

    my SO and i are so content with our sex life that we don't need to do it outside the house. then again, its only been 10 months so we might end up doing that just to spice it up.

    i will admit, i have done the public thing in the past.

  • Hibernophile@xanga

    Done it in a lot of outdoor places but I think my funniest was when we did it in the yard of some house that my boyfriend's dad was selling. hehe.

  • cinnaminflava@xanga

    LMAO! I JUST DID IT IN THE PARK @ THE END OF MY BLOCK THIS PAST FRIDAY NIGHT (LIKE 3 AM).   I'VE ALSO DONE IT IN THE BACK OF A CAR TWICE, A STORAGE CLOSET, AND AN ALLEY. I'M A BIT OF AN EXIBITIONIST, BUT THERE'S THIS EXTREME RUSH THAT FUELS THE INTENSITY OF THE MOMENT...  FANTASY PLACE IS A DIMLY LIT RESTROOM OF A NIGHT CLUB....

  • cinnaminflava@xanga

    @AllMyNamesAreTaken@xanga - I'VE HAD SEX IN PUBLIC PLACES, BUT NOT INFRONT OF THE PUBLIC. NO PEOPLE HAVE EVER BEEN VIEWERS OF MY EXIBITIONISMS. IT HAD NOTHING TO DO W/ OTHERS SEEING, OR POSSIBLY GETTING CAUGHT, BUT MORE SO W/ GETTING CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT AND SEIZING THE MOMENT, USING WHAT WAS AVAILABLE...

  • meGabZ@xanga

    the thrill!
    wouldn't mind trying it in the air i.e. in a plane..
    or maybe in a super crowded train
    i must be mad, i know, but think of the adrenaline!

  • Ballisticfutbol@xanga

    I would hella do it on the golf course where I work... but considering its a gated community filled with prudish people, I'd probably lose my job

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