Let me start off by saying that I am the anti-girly girl when it comes to relationships or guys in general. In fact, my roommate knew not to get all giddy when I told her about the guy I'm currently seeing. I don't believe in being obnoxiously spoiled or constantly attended to or all those other stereotypical wants and needs girls are "supposed to" have. I could go as far as saying that I'm on the verge to being a feminist, as well. All I ask for is a simple bit of TLC. I like things simple. I even get easily disgusted by too much cute-coupley stuff.
With that said, the guy I am dating now knew all of that right off the bat, since I told him when we were just friends, and it appeared that it was his first time dealing with a non-clingy/needy girl. We even discussed our ideal relationships before anything happened and we both agreed we wanted something really simple. Something that didn't entail the mess of a title and a "so and so is now in a relationship with ____" facebook change. What we both found out we wanted was a serious-no-strings-attached-type of relationship. Now, that may sound confusing to many of you, but, to us, this ideal would just be like any other relationship without the title. Yes, some people want/need the title, but our thought was, if you want to be with someone, you should just be with them--no questions asked. I see now that, like many ideas in life, it is always better on paper than in real life.
So this brings me to what's been on my mind: jealousy.
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