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Friday, 25 May 2012

Facebook's Cheap Wedding Ring

Priscilla Chan married into serious money in Mark Zuckerberg’s back garden over the weekend. She seems happy with her husband’s custom designed ruby wedding ring, but Facebook’s owner has been slammed for being cheap.

Grazia Daily reported the ring is estimated to be worth a “measly” $25, 000. My God, what a pathetic ring that must be. What a poor bride. More Here...
Flicking the Bean and Beating the Meat

Most of my friends know that I'm fairly open and comfortable talking about ... well, pretty much anything. From phone sex, to helping them with sultry things to say to an SO, to what would be the best vibrator: I'm the go-to girlfriend.

I have friends that are just as open as I am about personal sexual habits or curiosities. Then I have those that are a bit hush hush about it... but don't seem to mind when I complain that I'm out of batteries.
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Rules for Taking a Break

Let me start by saying that this is a very perplexing topic for most couples. If you're the person requesting a break then this may be a tad bit easier for you than it is for the other person.

If you feel you need a break:

1. You must make sure that you truly feel like there is a possibility that you want to be with the person. If you feel like your problems cannot be worked out it's pretty obvious that a break isn't going to help. You should probably just eject yourself from the relationship, 100 percent. More Here...
I Am Letting Go of My Crush

I give up, I quit, I resign, surrender, relinquish, forsake and all other words that imply letting go.

I wanted to believe more than anything that my crush would eventually come to feel the same way about me as I do about him, but the longer I wait, the more my heart breaks. And I am tired of hurting, tired of holding my breathe, hoping every word, look or touch is the one that will launch me into "happily ever after."

So, I quit. I have no more left to give.
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Thursday, 24 May 2012

Look Dumb, Get Laid

Dumb girls are hot. That’s the findings of a study that states men are more attracted to sleepy, drunken, or silly looking girls, in the short term. Being intelligent, or being able to stand up unaided, is only attractive if a man’s looking to get “wifed up,” researchers from the University of Texas found. More Here...
Balancing Work and Your Love Life

It was interesting to read the feedback on the post asking which is more important to you "love or a career?" I'd say it was fairly divided.

It's hard to choose pointblank which you would find more important over another. If you found someone you fell in love with, your views on things may change. Similarly, if you got an offer for your dream job, that may put things in a different perspective as well.

But when you have both, how do you balance it?
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He Hasn't Kissed Me Yet!

So here's an interesting story....

I'm almost 21 and never been in a relationship before. My best friend and I have been dancing around for the past two years but decided at the end of the summer not to date. But, I've been in love with him this whole time so I've been spending this past school year trying to reconcile this final decision with what I want.

At the end of spring break, I decided to randomly ask someone I knew out to coffee. We work on a lit mag together. I think we had all of half a conversation before. I knew nothing about him except that he was cute and, during a meeting, he complimented a poem I submitted anonymously. So anyway, I sent him an awkward email and four days later we went on a 6-hour long coffee date.

Great! Fantastic! I saw him a few times again over the next week and a half or so and then we went out to dinner. Afterwards, I asked him if we could date casually. He gave me a non-answer, and then texted me asking if we could meet up the next day so he could explain.
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Part 3: Okay, You Guys Win

My last two posts about a girl I really like who is currently in a long distance relationship ("Wanting to Make Someone Cheat" and "The Acute Love Triangle") have given me some interesting insight. I really like making these Datingish posts for that reason. It's a good way to get the general take on a situation.

You guys out there may someday help me to really know how to pull everything off perfectly. Some comments are helpful, some really harsh, some just plain mean, and some that show me what I still haven't even mentioned about the situation yet. As mean and occasionally immature as some of you commentators can be, all of your points of view on the situation are extremely valuable.

Something I really want to clarify is that I am definitely no scumbag. Some of you might find this notion unbelievable, but there is a huge difference between genuinely having feelings for someone and just wanting to screw them. Maybe a better title for my first post in this series would have been "Wanting to make someone leave her current boyfriend for me." More Here...

Wednesday, 23 May 2012

Couples Who Dress Alike

I remember meeting a boyfriend for lunch one day and realizing we were wearing matching outfits. It's one thing to have maybe similar shades of a shirt on, but there we were... both in kelly green tops and black pants with black shoes. We shared a laugh and felt a little silly for seeming to be "one of those couples" that plans outfits together.

I can understand wanting to dress at the same level for a certain event. I'm one who usually leans towards dressing up as opposed to down, though it will always depend on the outing. I don't particularly care about a date matching me or dressing up for me, though if a certain night calls for a dress code I won't hesitate to mention it.
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Does Love Make You Boring?

Heartbreak is brilliant for creativity, and the singer Kelly Clarkson has made millions from it. But now she’s got writers block. She told People magazine her happy relationship means she’s just not as inspired as she used to be.

The same goes for Adele. “21”, the biggest selling album of the 21^st century, was written after her terrible break up. What’s her third album going to look like now she’s apparently engaged? Can you imagine “Someone Like You,” but with lots of hand clapping and videos of Adele running through fields of corn, smiling to herself? Who’s going to buy that crap?

Being in a relationship is the best thing in the world, but can it make you a bit boring? I’m going to try and cast a critical eye over my recent life choices and behaviors so see if my relationship is making me dull. More Here...
Dealing with a Petty Partner

This post was submitted anonymously by a Datingish user.

How do I deal with a partner who is extremely petty in disagreements and always creates double standards? It's really hurting me. I'm trying to be the bigger person but it's hard. I don't what to do because she won't stop even after I've told her not to.

Do I break up with her? We've been together 6 years and it seems silly to break up, but then again she's not respecting my boundaries.

Help!
Moving Out of a Boyfriend or Girlfriend's House

I have been thinking about moving out of my boyfriend's house and back to my mother's. I have been living here for two years and I feel like I have built my life here. Lately, I really just want to pack up my things and go, but I've just been having trouble starting. It's so much to just pack up and take your things, and then I don't even know what I should take.

Do I take the things I bought? Like the pictures on the walls or the holiday decorations? Dishes? More Here...